Bittersweet Candy Bowl

so today my friend whose name is Ashley said she wasn`t my friend anymore because i got an infraction for showing the middle finger at the substitued teacher.Well one time she told me that this gangster wanted to kidnapped me and rape me.I got scared, but then she told me that she lied and that I didn`t wanted to be her friend anymore, but I said that i still wanted to be her friend. So who do you think is a bad friend Ashley or me. I just want you guys opinion.

Give her the finger.

Tough situation. I think you guys are both at fault.
You: It was kinda your fault for giving the middle finger to a teacher and getting yourself in this situation.
Her: 1. A good friend would help you through this tough time in life instead of pushing you away like dirt. 2. A good friend would never lie to you like that.

To some it up, I think Ashley is being more of a bad friend than you are. That doesnt mean you should get into a big fight with her, just spend some time with your other friends or meet new people. Sometimes it’s good to find some new friends.

I second Jerk’s motion.

yean akacatgirl your right and jerk i did give her the finger

…Then you are on your merry way sir.

sir? im a fucking girl

He didn’t mean it offensively. It’s just, all things being equal, you have to assume you’re talking to a dude.

yeah i know that im just hyper and i get crazy when im hyper

Fair enough. Honestly? I don’t think flipping off the teacher was a good idea, but I can understand the impulse. It’s also kind of stupid not to want to be friends with someone just because they got in trouble with the authorities rather than, say, lying about something kind of important.

That said: you two probably have history and it probably hurts but maybe she’s just not worth it? Hell, I don’t know. Wait and see if she was just talking out her ass when she said she didn’t want to be your friend, or at least sleep on it. No sense in doing or saying anything to make the situation worse.

no i dont think i got an infraction, but honestly im a good student and i forgave her her for lying to me and she went around in school telling everybody she wasn` t my friend anymore like its there bussiness

Then fuck it. Maybe she is a lost cause, if for no other reason than being a drama queen.

…….. I keep imagining your friend as one of those “popular” kids that act like assholes and think everyone is below them.

no she isn`t popular only me ,but i think she was jealous cuz alot of boys follow me and tell me stuff

From my experience, people like that will end up coming right back to you in 3 days or so. In other words, just wait, and in a while it will be your choice of whether you want to be her friend or not.

You haven’t really given a good reason to stay friends with her ma’am.

i dont want to be her friend anymore right now she called me on my phone,but i didn`t answer. She really never listened to me if i told her something she would say who cares, but when she told me something i really did care

She’s an ass.
Your an ass but your not an ass to a freind.
You can be freinds with asses but you would have to acsept and expect this behavior.
If she wont be your freind then thats that.
If you have a chance to still be freinds take it but never trust here.
Freindships don’t really requier trust, just mildly pleasant times.
I have a freind who is about 90% ass.
never take her seriosly.

What is this, jr high?

Sounds like a bitch, looks like a bitch, must be one. Leave and forget her. @_@

yeah it is 7th grade actually

Yea, give it a bit. Middle school is just a mealstrom of annoying feuds. It should pass

What? Sheesh I have a couple of friends who are very much like Jerk and yet we continue to be friends…find common ground, and try to let it blow over (though Middle School is rather unpredictable)

I am referring you to this (old) thread to solve your problems.

Anyone else get the feeling that Jerk could be the world’s best agony aunt/uncle sorta thing?

The world’s most sarcastic agony uncle who solves problems by verbally abusing people until they clean up their act… yeah, I can see it working

The question:
My freinds being a little bitch about me getting in trouble even though that is a REEALLLY controling thing to do.
Do I stay freinds?

The result:
jerk’s old age life style is predicted

Push her down the stairs.

well today she wrote me a note and this is what it REALLY says

yesenia i`m sorry okay look I was just mad because.I`ll tell you later.when I have time to and if you still be my freind send me back a note that you do! okay im sorry later. I HAVE TO TALK TO YOU.PLEASE WRITE BACK TO ME

well i didn`t write back to her and I don`t know if i still want her to be my friend

There is still the option of pushing her down the stairs.

I think you should give her one more chance… If she defects, then you are in the right. But if she does not, you will have one more friend. ^_^

I’m just saying, stairs are still a valid solution.

Your freinds don’t have to be good people but you have to expect them not to be good people it that case.
At least hear out her bullshit.
If it’s not related to you then it’s an exuse but that doesn’t realy matter.
Just expect bullshit from now on and don’t trust your freind in any situation.

Kick her in the shin!

Violence is never the answer. Just ignore her and spend time with your other friends. It also helps to stare at cute guys to get your mind off of her.

this reminds me of one time, me and my friend were joking with eachother during art class, and this bitchy teacher pulls us out after class saying how we weren’t following directions (when in fact, we were), and then she has the audacity, the nerve to question our friendship! Seriously? MYOFB, crazy, suppresive art teacher. How did that nazi ever become an art teacher, anyway?

How does one question a freindship?
Somthing like “I know you guyes look like freinds and sound like freinds and act like freinds and smell like freainds, and taste like freinds, and feel like freinds but I don’t think you are for some reason”.