No offense and they might be different, but relationships in highschool most of the time look like they are unbreakable, but most of those relationships fail.
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Noir,i can barely understand you,can anyone else understand him? hes like speaking some strange obscure foreign language
anyway,if their relationship is so “krazy glued” as you say then how come she is so flirtacious with you,maybe she likes teasing you either way i see that as a sign that she may like you i just dont understand how they could possibly be so madly in love when she is that flirtacious (if she is as you say she is) or maybe she has a crush on you? the possibilites are NOT FUCKING ENDLESS but there are many possiblites,Its probabaly a good thing to let her know how you feel instead of just letting it go hurrrrr
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Comment ID #85687
shut john foreign language would e speakin like this
deberias intentar hacer algunos movimientos enlugar de quedarte callado y esperar.
my spelling sucks cause im on a phone and in too lazy to care for punctuaion spelling or that shit im not in skool
Comment ID #85693
What? i dont even understand the what seems to be english parts
Comment ID #85734
Great, this hurricane is going to blow my chance to tell her tomorrow >:[
Comment ID #85736
lulz?
I got my pc now John.
Is this fucking english to you?
Do you need me to type any other shit or fix anything else?
Just please don’t fuck about my typing skills I suck at english alright, get it?, entiendes?
I know I type bad ain’t my fault, my stupid teacher didn’t teach us a shit last year.
You happy now?
Comment ID #85739
oh, wow i didn’t even see that pun *facepalm*
Comment ID #85740
I didn’t see it until you pointed it out.
You leavin’ to get away from the hurricane or somethin’?
Comment ID #85741
nah, my parents won’t let me drive in bad weather ![]()
Comment ID #85742
@Dr.John i’m not exagerating at all, she really acts that way towards me.
Comment ID #85746
Let me ask you this, Drakes: you tell her, and then what happens? What do you want from this? Is it that important that she know that you’d be willing to risk her friendship? And if it was obvious enough that Saber could figure it out, no doubt she’s figured it out too.
Not everything is worth articulating, bro, but if you feel deep down, like a God damn leap of faith kind of thing, that this is something you must do, I will not talk you out of it.
Comment ID #85751
i…i..i don’t know. i don’t want our friendship to end, but i can’t hold this in any longer.
Comment ID #85754
Look, I know that most people would tell you “heart wants what it wants” but I’m going to let you in on a little secret: Heart be fucking selfish. A lot of people use this line of reasoning to make very poor decisions. And you know what I think? I think you did the honorable thing telling Saber first, but I think the hard thing to do what be not to tell her.
Personally, I don’t think it’s worth putting into words. That’s all. But I don’t know everything. Maybe if you put it out there, they’d both feel you were honest enough that you had nothing to hide from them. Just be careful, but don’t shy away from any decision just because it’s tough, got it?
Comment ID #85756
Thank you Jerk *a tear actually came to eye*. You’re the best ![]()
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Well, I know, but I still like to hear it. ![]()
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X-Saber says if i tell her she’d probably avoid me for a day or 2, but would be fine after that. So i think i’m gonna go ahead and tell her. Fellow forumites, you guys know the answers to everything & you’re the bestest friends ever! I love all of you (but not inthat Carson way -_-)
Comment ID #85760
Alright. Good luck, bud.
Comment ID #85761
I just think it’s amazing how good a friend he is. I mean seriously, he’s helping me tell his gf i love her! No ordinary friend would do that!
Comment ID #85765
When I did something to that effect, my friend did what you’d expect for a reason you’d have never suspected: he was fucking furious.
At his girlfriend.
Turns out that he was a closet homosexual for years and was angry at her because wanted me for himself. He’s still my friend even though she’s not my girlfriend anymore. (He’s also my connection to less than reputable peoples.)
Comment ID #85766
well my friend lets me bully his gf
and him, and his friend, and the dude he hates and also my friends and….. nvm
my friend tells me he loves his gf noone else knos hes got a gf cause the girl has a bad antisocial reputation anyways he trusted me enough to tell me ![]()
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oh wow. also, i’m gonna record me telling her and post it here ![]()
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Comment ID #85772
JUST KIDDING!!! I would never do that
Comment ID #85829
grrrrrr i can’t sleep cause everytime i shut my eyes i start having a fantasy about her -_____-
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well sorry
Comment ID #85834
it’s not like it’s a bad thing, but i got stuff to do early tomor- errr today and i need sleep
Comment ID #85836
Go to sleep then, take as many pills as possible, get off the website so you aren’t distracted. Also you don’t need to post twice, there is a magical thing called the edit button, you should try it sometime.
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no pills. also i said why i can’t sleep. the site’s not keeping me up (i got off for a while b4 i kept waking up)
Comment ID #85838
I developed feelings for my best friend’s girlfriend once… She broke up with him, then I started hanging out with her instead of him, then after we graduated highschool, we started dating. That was my first relationship, and it lasted 2 very happy years and 3 not quite as happy years.
Turns out that I was too honest with her, and told her that I got a boner for another girl… one time…
She never really forgave me or got over it.
Lasted age 18-23
Edit: The FFT battle music always puts me to sleep… look that stuff up
Comment ID #85839
Don’t complain then if you can’t get to sleep, watch some TV or something.
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also, i can’t edit when i’m on my psp. and this is the only interwebs i got right now sooooo
Comment ID #85842
Get a job, buy a computer or laptop just for yourself, take money out of your savings. Many solutions.
Comment ID #85843
argh!to tired to argue right now going to try sleeping……keyword being try
Comment ID #85845
another thing that sometimes helps is squeezing one out, if you know what I mean
Comment ID #85861
Geez noir,no need to be a fuckhead about it,Also good luck draixen (by good luck i mean hopefully this wont end in tears/hatred)
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Im not being a fuck head dude -_- wen ppl speak about my english its like, i know i suck and I got an accent so it kinda bothers
me wen ppl speak about how I type english or speak it
I blame my teacher of english of last year he got bullied by his students and once they
made him cry ![]()
(woke up at 4 am to do homework)
Comment ID #85881
dunno if he’s done it already, and i have nooo idea if even one of you will listen to me BUT!
i am 15 aswell, but go by 16 on the internet (yh as if i would always give out my real age = dumb idea)
and i have had soooo many bad run ins with girls. mostly because i am fucking antisocial, a damn hypocrite and i have never yet discovered love, though i understand it perfectly well and i even know what its meant to feel like (dad told me) BUT im not gonna tell you Drakes cuz i am afraid it may ruin it for you.
also, hate to be creepy, but i seriously own real weapons and if you need it…. i wil keel X-saber! hahahahahaa *cough cough* ugh. Sorry thats my humour.
From what i have been reading, it seems as though you should take the shot and tell her, cuz i know that if you dont, you will always look back on this with regret and never forgive yourself for not telling her. You have to tell her and if its meant to be, she’ll feel the same. If not… i dont know. My advice, take it as it comes and try not to fuck it up. Though i’ve never been laid, ive been kissed several times and the worst possible thing to do is start blabbing on about this and that and stuff that she doesnt like, cuz she’ll just get bored quickly. when you have conversations, be witty but dont try too hard, be sweet but not too sweet, and whatever you do NEVER be macho. also, you HAVE to listen to EVERYTHING she says and NEVER interrupt her. give positive feedback, and always tell her what she wants to hear. if she thinks your faking it, dont argue just say: “well at least i’m trying. doesnt that count for something? girls like you are hard to come by” and sound gentle not accusing.
My gardener says that talking to girls is like growing plants: you need a gentle touch but a firm hand. at first, i handt a clue what he was talking about, but later i found out. If you love this girl, you’ll know what i mean.
Basically, be yourself but dont. stange i know but it works. if you have apsects of yourself that she may not like, dont go there. if you get to chatting, tell her about them but dont go into it too much.
I have no idea if you think what im saying is any good, but just dont ruin it for yourself. you probably know all this shit already but i wouldnt know. Best tip i got: occasionally say something really deep and beautiful to keep her interested. Best time to do this is at night.
Sorry if im not much help, but it sounds like this girl is gonna be part of you forever no matter which path you take so if you are going to tell her i dont want you to ruin it.
I dont know if it’s obvious or not but if youre talking to her and youre in doubt, say and do nothing. its whole world better that saying or doing something stupid even by accident.
i know that you’ll come out of this okay Draixen.
Comment ID #85885
How would giving out your real age be a dumb idea,especially if the fake age is just 1 year older you’re a dumbass
You need to be honest with girls (in my opinion) if you tell them JUST what they want to hear then you’re a fuckhead,sometimes telling them what they want to hear is alright but not ALL the time you need to tell the truth instead of being a bitch liar
Dude seriously? Are you a fucking moron???!?
If you just say these things (lies) just to like…i dont even know just BE with her then you’re fucking yourself over if you’re forcing it,You can’t force a relationship it’s not good ever
However there is one thing i agree with chazfullidiot on,you should tell her to get this off your chest instead of living with it for the rest of your life in (possible) regret.
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@NoRAd no…not today
@Chaz now why would i lie when i’m trying to be honest?
@DJ hahahaha oh and yeah, that would be why i’m telling her
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NOT LIKE THAT!!!!
jeez the girls see right through it if you lie like an idiot
just tell them theyre pretty but dont go overboard. its that simple. if you love her, it shouldnt be lieing. it’ll be easy to come up with this stuff.
@Dr John: overreacting. jeez whats up with you? sad i got a fan club of chicks and you dont
srsly i do, but theres no upsides. they never leave me alone!
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so your a wanna be mike? Besides the only girls you get are seniors……………….fromthe retirement home XD
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Hahaha
Also chazfullmetal,i know you’re lying i dont have to guess i KNOW you’re lying because
1.Fuck you
2.Fuck you
3.You’re an idiot and fuck you
4.Why am i not stating real reasons? because i dont have to this is the internet not stop trying to be edgy and cool because you’re failing horribly ok What you told draixen to do (the telling girls what they want to hear only) could possibly be the worst advice ever (Aside from killing yourself,which you should do btw)
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My opinion on the subject

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Okay Chaz. I was going to leave that alone but seriously? What is it, a club of chicks that think you’re a moron, or are, quite possibly, stupider than you? And why would John know that, OR give a flying fuck? Don’t talk shit if you don’t have anything to back it up you’re just being a stupid brat. You are not being cool by saying you have a fanclub and it will NOT impress us, if that’s what you think you’re doing. Your advice was based off of your own experiences, which evidently failed and you aren’t being edgy, cool or impressive to any of us. You’re dirt. You mean nothing more than anybody else on this planet, and this ‘fanclub’ or yours, however fake and gay it may be means nothing. You will amount to nothing.
Have a nice day.
As for relationship advice: If you base your relationship around telling her what she wants to hear like Chaz said, and you’re lying the harder it will be for her to feel comfortable and trust you. She will feel like every compliment is a lie and wont want you. Be yourself as much as possible but listen to her concerns. If something you do bothers her or makes her not like you as much that do what you can to fix it in small ways so it’s tolerable. You should tell her how you feel, and hope she wont take it badly and you can progress from there.
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In response to every statement you have ever made Chazfullmetal, I bring you this.

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AHAHAHAHA critical hit! *its not very effective……..
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@DJ Good reasons
@Jonuichi thanks and thanks
@JB hahahaha nice
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I was just on the phone with her, and i was half tempted to tell her. Luckily i didn’t, that woulda been BAD!
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Yay! She said i can come over tomorrow which means i can tell her ![]()
Head back to the forum index.
Comment ID #85504
Well thanks for the advice drunky XD
Draixen September 2, 2010, 5:01 AM EST.