im on Magnus’s side. i cant stand love. im not even sure what love is, but it depresses me that pretty much everyone around me has found love. im told im charming, but im not really sure how to talk to people (as you may have guessed) as i tend to stay away from conversation. Plus everything i touch turns to shit so i have a good reason for not interacting with society as much as is “reccomended”.
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love sickens me, does it make you sick too
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Chaz: It’s a lot like everything else; If you’re out of practice you’re going to do badly. You have to just do some crazy crazy shit until all your fear of conversation is gone. Then, breaking the ice is easy.
My problem is that there’s NO WOMEN…ANYWHERE near where I live. I’m not afraid to talk to people anymore, and I’m damn happy with how college life has changed me…
but there are no girls at tech schools. Oh well, i can keep fantasizing I live in an all girl’s university until then…
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Are you in prison? No one will call you gay if you give in to alternative outlets to those urges.
But they will think it very loudly.
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@Vince: As i said it’s a tech school, and the degrees they offer are male-dominated statistically. The school has a 27 to 1 male:female ratio, and the girls that are there travel in packs, determined not to allow their kin to be swept away by the hordes of lonely nerds ![]()
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nope
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What happens at tech school
Stays on the internet
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@happehface
i just had so many memories of 28 weeks later
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What happens in 28 weeks that you remember it before it happened?
Comment ID #96214
it’s a movie the title of which is ‘28 weeks later’….or are you trollin
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point-love has multiple definitions. i for instance, love everyone, but also hate many people. i think im kinda like ender like that, once i interact with someone in any way (talking,playing football, etc) for about 10 minutes or so, i feel i know them, and i love them like a brother.
because of that i kind of love everyone before i even meet them.
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I’m a hopeless romantic. I hold many fairy-tale like assumptions about love and it often is the cause of my oversensitive perception to love. I cry very easily when I see someone’s heart shattered, be it a friend or a character that I like. When I see a sort of true love portrayed I can’t stand to see the flame go uncared for or die completely.
I also hold many old fashioned ideals about love, and a few that seem like common sense that aren’t very much followed any more, such as the trust you need to place trust in your partner and the fact you shouldn’t cheat on them.
I’m also a very firm believer in saving yourself for marriage and that’s what I’ve promised myself I’d do.
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ah love
……the destroyer of empires, creator of religion, the only force in existence even i cannot escape
(god complex further developing)
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I COULD say something like “love is the fools wisdom and the folly of the wise” - I COULD tell you about my old man who allways said that anything worth getting is worth waiting for - I COULD bring up the philosophical view of the buhdism that pain and life is the same, and as such the cost of the love-pain you feel is nothing more than the price for life - I could tell you that the “nice-guy” effect has so far earned me only friends and no romance - I COULD do all that, but seriously, how would that help you? I know that I don’t know sh”t about love … but THAT might be the first thing you have to learn.
Don’t write off love just because you have only truely experienced the painfull kind - you might not know enough to make that decission yet
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Oh dont hurry love! you just have to wait! love dont come easayy!!! it’s a game of give and take!!
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the greatest thing you’ll ever learn…? ![]()
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heh heard the song on the radio and just had to do it
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Diana Ross & The Supremes - You Can’t Hurry Love
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i personally have accepted that i will probably never find love (romantic sense) since i have a constant urge to leave everything. just leave and wander and fight. and i would require someone with insanity to match my own.
but i still enjoy my life filled with love for the world, and friends who love me. the key is to see all the paths you can take, and make a difference in the world
(where is the love-black eyed peas)
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Don’t worry, kazi, there are plenty of chicks out there as crazy as you are.
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lolz
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Does love make you ill?
Do happy couples make you want to vomit?
Have you ever purchased a weapon on Valentine’s Day?
LCD Dating: Lowest Common Denominator Dating Service. Isn’t it time you did something…for you?
(Warning: participants may include murderers, psychopaths and fourteen year old girls trying to get you arrested that you’d, like, swear they’re eighteen, man.)
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I think you mean LSD Dating, jerk.
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No, that one’s for hippies. See also: Lucy in the Sky with Dildoes.
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I think you’re confusing the Beatles’ tunes here. Topically, it should be “All you need is love”. ^_^
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Yuck I hate the beatles >:C
It was all my mom ever played ever when I was a kid.
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And yet you do not like them? ^_^
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hey, im a horrible person….
other peoples happiness makes me sick. so by extension: love does to.
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Aww. ![]()
*hugs*
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@ILB: I liked classical music as a kid… I was strange.
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Ah, then you are forgiven entirely. ^_^
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o.O too much happens while im not on the forum.
love still sickens me. but the worst part is when they ask me why i dont have a girlfriend. mainly because i find it absurdly difficult to answer questions directly
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Say it with me: “I haven’t met the right girl.”
I mean, it’s pretty much true no matter how you look at it.
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@Jerk : Tru story. Although if you’re not outgoing, it can also be your fault too D:
Can’t always expect your dream girl to be searching for you…
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Oh? That is not quite right for me to say. ^_^
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@ilb: dont mind me. i am just lonely is all.
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But that is still not a good thing, dear. ^_^
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@ILB: Technically you can still say you haven’t met the right girl yet
there could still be someone out there who could make you cross over!
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In theory, yes, but in reality I do not believe that can or will happen. But oh well, I will just have to wait and see. ^_^
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@ilb: you get used to it… or maybe you dont… whatev
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I’ve always told myself that if I could just find gay sex more attractive I would just marry a guy. Gay guys are always funny anyway so it’d be like a party until he whips it out and starts talking dirty.
Then I start crying.
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i love everyone.
i hate some people
im disappointed in others
but i STILL love them
im just not IN love with them
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love is stupid if your a loner like me you will see a great world around you people who get regected to much turn gay or lesbian
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I’ve been in relationships with verying levels of love and up to date i’ve been ultamently considered Bigbrother Lark and not Boyfriend Lark, they just don’t make the transistion. But even through all that i still don’t give up hope. I’m with a girl who’s 3 years older then me and i think things may last this time. To her i think i’m Boyfriend Lark and not Bigbrother. Point being, i’ve been called a heartles bastard for years now and some how this girl gave me a chance and got through the ice, so if i can find it then i know all yall can.
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I read that and it breaks my heart a little, partial because I’m a giant sissy and hate to see someone unhappy, but mainly because I’m a die hard romantic, which disappointingly does not mean taking off your shoes, crawling in air vents, and relocating your shoulder seven hundred times before asking someone out in order to stop the Russians. I’m that guy who read this and thinks, “He just needs to meet the person he is destined to be with forever and eve-wait a minute that’s stupid that doesn’t happen.” I always wanted that mushy love stuff, like love at first sight, perfect dates, and soul mates. Obviously, now I see that that isn’t how things work, but I still daydream about that idyllic fantastical relationship, of sitting on the couch, watching a movie and snuggling. Snuggling. I have lost the respect of people for that word. Seriously, walk into a bar and start talking about how much you love to snuggle. See if you aren’t beaten up in five minutes, and I guarantee you will not get a personal possession back.
P.S. Still love snuggling. Ladies… and gentleman.
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Snuggling is some of the best shit in the world. I love it. And any of you people who don’t, shut up we don’t want to hear you bitch.
Head back to the forum index.
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It’s endearing how you always react like that when people disregard your title. ^_^
ILB September 24, 2010, 7:33 AM EST.