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Birth Control

View Postradicalwanderer, on 24 October 2011 - 07:47 PM, said:

My understanding was that cold sores, while technically in the herpes family, was not able to be transmitted by contact and was therefore not the same as the condition everyone thinks of when you mention herpes

I suggest you read up on Herpes Simplex 1 and Herpes Simplex 2 viruses then. Like I said, HSV-1 usually occurs on the face but can occur on the genitals, HSV-2 usually occurs on the genitals but can occur on the face. They share about 50% of their DNA, cold sores just lack the social stigma. Herpes that occurs on the face is often considered to be a "milder" case of herpes. I wouldn't worry much, though, just steer clear of sexual activity involving the mouth and genitals while in a cold sore producing state.
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I'm gone for a weekend and I miss all the fun herpes and cooch-eating conversations. I love both of those things! D;

Contraceptive Fun Fact: an old folk remedy for preventing an unwanted pregnancy was to fill the vagina with spoiled goat's milk and hold it in as long as possible, the idea being that it curdled anything inside.
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View PostBourbon, on 25 October 2011 - 07:59 AM, said:

I'm gone for a weekend and I miss all the fun herpes and cooch-eating conversations. I love both of those things! D;

Contraceptive Fun Fact: an old folk remedy for preventing an unwanted pregnancy was to fill the vagina with spoiled goat's milk and hold it in as long as possible, the idea being that it curdled anything inside.

people had some fucked up ideas. how would you even figure out something like that? D:
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Gypsies!
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It was simple trial and error back then.
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That explains why Hitler wanted to kill them all.
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About every single thread mentions Hitler in some fashion
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View PostChewySmokey, on 16 October 2011 - 09:49 AM, said:

I was wondering what opinions some of you had regarding the various forms of birth control there are based on what you know/personal experiences. I ask because I'm pretty sure most of my friends don't have sex lives and it would be just awkward asking out of the blue (so I'll ask random strangers on the internet!). I'm asking out of curiosity more than anything.

I'm not referring to "natural methods" like abstinence, pulling out or keeping track on a calendar when you're mostly likely not to become pregnant so your man doesn't have to use a condom (I know people who exist because of these "methods" ;) ), just the medical/pharmaceutical stuff. Or hell, if you're curious about something, just ask about it! You might learn something that may prevent any unwanted pregnancy.

There are so many kinds (stats on what I could remember from Planned Parenthood):
  • condoms 150/1000 chance of getting pregnant (used right) fuck it
  • "the pill"
  • the patch
  • spermicides
  • diaphragms
  • depo needles 1/1000
  • IUD's (copper or hormonal) 8/1000
  • sterilization 1/1000
  • vasectomy 1/1000
  • etc.


Personally: I started to strongly dislike condoms just because they're too damn thick to feel anything after a while. Early in our relationship, after we started having sex, she tried the pill but it didn't work right because of her medications. The girlfriend tried the depo needle once and it was great for the first month, but then horrendous side effects took hold that lasted for the better part of a year. Always used condoms, but now we're looking to the IUD at the end of the month. I don't know why she wants to try it, something about wanting me to get as much pleasure as I can instead of her just having all the fun. I'm a little nervous for her, but the nurse is very experienced in this sort of thing.

Also, I'd prefer this not become some dumbass debate about religious bullshit or abortions.
And no, I am not just making this thread so I can talk about my sex-life, I do that everywhere else anyway.


IUDs are kind of dangerous if you've never had a baby. They recommend it because those who have not may have issues keeping it in their uterus. I mean it could pop out! I've considered it too but I've also heard from someone who had it, it's absolutely painful for the first 3 months! But it's not always required to have a baby. And most birth control requires you get use to it anyway, so maybe it's your best bet.

I've personally only used the Seasonique pill which is just awful for the first 2 months. By month 3, it's pretty much smooth sailing.

This post has been edited by nalem: 04 December 2011 - 12:15 AM

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View PostBasketCase, on 03 December 2011 - 12:38 AM, said:

About every single thread mentions Hitler in some fashion

If he didn't want to bring up Hitler he shouldn't have said anything about Gypsies.

Since posting that, I learned that they used to have mobile "gas wagons" where they could just park out behind the local sanitarium and empty the crazies into a van filled with carbon monoxide.

I'm technically still on topic if I'm talking about retroactive birth control. :D
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View Postnalem, on 04 December 2011 - 12:15 AM, said:

IUDs are kind of dangerous if you've never had a baby. They recommend it because those who have not may have issues keeping it in their uterus. I mean it could pop out! I've considered it too but I've also heard from someone who had it, it's absolutely painful for the first 3 months! But it's not always required to have a baby. And most birth control requires you get use to it anyway, so maybe it's your best bet.

I've personally only used the Seasonique pill which is just awful for the first 2 months. By month 3, it's pretty much smooth sailing.
Pop out? The things have arms to try to prevent it from slipping out, even then it still needs to get through the cervix to "pop" out, but they did warn that it is possible for it to come out during a period and to make sure that it didn't come out with the tampon.

It's been almost a month and she hasn't had any problems with the IUD. After every cycle, before we start bumpin' uglies, I'm supposed to check to see if I can feel the IUD's strings to insure that it is still in place, but I can feel it stinging my nob when we are in certain positions, so I guess it's still in :P
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View PostChris, on 16 October 2011 - 07:54 PM, said:

Spoiler


in all seriousness, the pill is what would be ideal for my relationship, becuase condoms can break or fail.

Lol. where have i heard that before? Taeshi?

eh. i take peter griffen's advice.

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What the? Why did we revive this? :question:
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A thread can be revived if you have something useful to contribute. Case in point: nalen's response to ChewySmokey.
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Yeah that's true... I figured Smokey got all the advice he needed at this point though :O
Even if the revival post was not related to birth control XD
But hey if we're bringing this back I have to ask. What the heck is "the patch"?
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View PostChewySmokey, on 04 December 2011 - 10:47 AM, said:

View Postnalem, on 04 December 2011 - 12:15 AM, said:

IUDs are kind of dangerous if you've never had a baby. They recommend it because those who have not may have issues keeping it in their uterus. I mean it could pop out! I've considered it too but I've also heard from someone who had it, it's absolutely painful for the first 3 months! But it's not always required to have a baby. And most birth control requires you get use to it anyway, so maybe it's your best bet.

I've personally only used the Seasonique pill which is just awful for the first 2 months. By month 3, it's pretty much smooth sailing.
Pop out? The things have arms to try to prevent it from slipping out, even then it still needs to get through the cervix to "pop" out, but they did warn that it is possible for it to come out during a period and to make sure that it didn't come out with the tampon.

It's been almost a month and she hasn't had any problems with the IUD. After every cycle, before we start bumpin' uglies, I'm supposed to check to see if I can feel the IUD's strings to insure that it is still in place, but I can feel it stinging my nob when we are in certain positions, so I guess it's still in :P


Alrighty. Just don't want your lady to get hurt or you guys get preggers.
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View PostThatGuy, on 05 December 2011 - 05:51 AM, said:

But hey if we're bringing this back I have to ask. What the heck is "the patch"?

It releases hormones that make the opportunity for abortions less likely.
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View PostJerk, on 05 December 2011 - 05:49 PM, said:

View PostThatGuy, on 05 December 2011 - 05:51 AM, said:

But hey if we're bringing this back I have to ask. What the heck is "the patch"?

It releases hormones that make the opportunity for abortions less likely.

eloquent as always, Jerk :D
but yeah, that's pretty much wait it is; a birth control pill in patch form.
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I've personally been on the pill for a little over three years and for the most part it has gone great. I used to be really paranoid, too, and would use condoms + pill. My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years though and we're each others' first, so we're not concerned about STDs or anything. My boyfriend and I talked about sex for a good three years before considering birth control. If you have/had multiple partners, you always want to use the condom even though it may not necessarily be as comfortable. Having multiple partners increases the chance of getting an STD. I also always try to keep Plan B on hand just in case, but I've always done my best to be careful.

I'm thinking of switching over to the patch simply because I'm tired of taking the pill every day, and having to get it filled at a pharmacy. I hear terrible things about depo (the shot) and haven't heard of anyone personally that has had good luck with it. IUDs are also recommended for women who have had children because complications are less likely. Like someone said though, it's not a requirement and totally dependent on how your doctor interprets your health history and current life styles. The issue with IUDs is that sometimes they can perforate through the uterus or cause other infections. They are rare and unlikely but it can still happen.

Researchers are actually looking into birth control for men (besides the condom), such as the male pill. It's supposed to reduce sperm count to 0, and is reversible like the female pill. I don't know too much about it right now but it would be great for there to be more options for men, seeing as I feel that women go through more for the sake of sexual health. Sure, both men and women have physicals and exams and what not, but women have to go through things like pelvic exams and getting pap smears, which were terribly painful for me until years later. :S

This post has been edited by Aika: 05 December 2011 - 11:30 PM

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