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i hate that smash no longer has an avatar...what happened?

I dislike that Amazil starts so many different projects and never finishes any of them.

NO I'M NOT BEING A HYPROCRITE BECAUSE OF MY PROJECT THAT I HAVEN'T UPDATED IN NEARLY TWO MONTHS THE SECOND CHAPTER IS ALMOST DONE

Also, I keep getting an error that says my avvies are too large when they're not.

This post has been edited by Smash Genesis: 05 November 2011 - 12:18 AM

I dislike that your new avatar makes you look constantly angry.

I really don't like your username. I mean, I have no idea how to best pronounce it, any attempts I make sound dumber than before. I feel like it was the start of a good name but some syllables don't mesh and it makes it awkward to say.

@Taeshi. Valid points. Quite true

So right person above me eh?... Uhm... Everytime I see your avatar I think of some squishably soft thing and then I realize your name is bourbon and then everything gets really real man.

Wait does that mean I'm right that you don't like me (((

/nervous train wreck

Quote

Lack of integrity.

And now... I predict for the future... someone will say... "Lack of originality"

you shitpost 90% of the time

You're mopey sometimes about a specific subject which is understandable, but I still dislike it.

This post has been edited by Codysseus: 06 November 2011 - 04:44 PM

Chris, on 06 November 2011 - 04:25 PM, said:

Fair enough, I can accept that.

I don't know who you are but not knowing things scares me and things that scare me I HATE. HUUUURRRRGGGHHHHH.

(Also, geeeeeez Taeshi whats with the reading into my words like that. Geeeeeez.)

Shows fear

BeachSideCheese, on 07 November 2011 - 03:15 AM, said:

Come on man, it's the Social Study's version. You need to be a bit more wordy and serious than that :V

Why use sentences when you can get your point across in two words?

On the other hand, I probably should have typed out more. In my defense though, I was only using a silly comment to respond to Ace's less than serious comment.

This post has been edited by BeachSideCheese: 07 November 2011 - 03:40 AM

Lack of originality

Is insulting the person above him.

Be more descriptive!

Marshmallow's been here for some time, but I don't know him very well. He looks like a swell guy and has some really nice art in several different styles, though. I wish you'd post some more stuff in the booru, mate.

I guess on the negative side, he IS a bronie and that's always a problem.

I don't like that he sees having Abbey as a favorite character is a negative.

FIVE NEGATIVES!!!


EDIT:

I'm just being an arse. You're a bro, stellan!

This post has been edited by Migrant: 09 November 2011 - 03:09 AM

Sure, I will gladly help with stuff, but don't act like you're entitled to it. Could use a little more tact you know? ^^

Hit me.

I don't like your avatar. Something about it just seems off. I wouldn't think it would bother me, but everytime I scroll past it, it annoys me somehow.

This post has been edited by Boringamus: 10 November 2011 - 01:35 AM

skmojo, on 06 November 2011 - 10:00 AM, said:

cracktastic, on 07 November 2011 - 06:10 AM, said:

I called it. I did, didn't I? I think I definitely called it.

Migrant, on 08 November 2011 - 11:35 PM, said:

Eh, I just haven't felt like drawing BCB lately, dunno why.

I keep most of my pony posts in the appropriate thread. I doubt an avatar is pushing it.

A BCI member and I am jealous of it.

Too much white space in your avatar. It disorients me a bit.

This post has been edited by Boringamus: 10 November 2011 - 09:34 PM

Still lives up to his name.

I think you're too aggressive towards other people. Mostly only to people who deserve it, but you sometimes seem overly hostile.

This post has been edited by Boringamus: 10 November 2011 - 10:11 PM

I shan't fear judgment by forum peers considering no one outside the IRC and few in the IRC have any idea who I am.

Not much I can tell you about Boringamus though, he is an enigma of sorts to me. Not sure if I can dislike him for making me choose between making a very impersonal account on his character, or resort to stalkerdom to find out who he is. On the topic of avatars, what in the world is that?

Honestly, I don't like how little we talk to each other. I know that some of it is bad on my end, with me popping in and out of conversations randomly, but sometimes I feel ignored by you in the IRC even though I know that that isn't really the case. Like, I want to talk to you more, but there are times when there's nothing I can really say since you are in the middle of conversation with someone else and I feel like I'd be intruding.

In other words, right now I'm blaming you for my own shortcomings.

How dare you make such sordid accusations! But I do agree and Kax dear please don't think you're intruding. We should talk more! You should shed more fashion advice on me, I am helpless. Plus you should totally talk about my imaginary wedding dress with me because NO ONE ELSE WILL.
And I'm terribly sorry you feel like I'm ignoring you. I don't do it intentionally, I just assume you don't feel like talking to me either.
We make awful friends don't we?

For the sake of not nabbing nagging posts, feel free to refer to Kax as the person above you.

You give off a vibe of a complete attention whore to me and sometimes I can't stand you as a result of that. There have been multiple times where I would see you in an IRC conversation and someone would be talking about something and you would revert the conversation to yourself - worse, you would revert the conversation to something self-deprecating. Like rambling on and on about how "unattractive" and "untalented" you are, and while I disagree with those points, there are times where you do that so annoyingly often it makes me wonder if you're just trying to seek attention and that is horrendously irritating, and makes me feel more critical towards your art. It's nice being humble, but you can be really whiny.

Also you're one of the people that's often in IRC yet whines about being in IRC. And that really shits me. I can understand people going "hurpa durp IRC sure is dumb" and it's kind of funny, but you tend to do it in less of a funny way and more of a bitchy way. Like "hurr hurr i hate all of you/the irc is the worst did i mention that ps i hate myself i'm so terrible" and I'm sure you're joking, but it's done often enough it makes me stop and think "well why don't you just get out if you're gonna bitch about the IRC so much"

Admittedly I think you've gotten better and you can be quite clever and funny, but those are definitely two things that have annoyed me for the longest time. And I never really thought of going "oh my god shut up with your bitching" because it seems you're the darling of the IRC and people really love you and praise you tons. I think I remember talking to someone on PM once and annoying people came to topic and I was like "either something is wrong with me or I just tend to dislike people who are coincidentally loved by everyone else" and the person was like "like who" and I was like "karo" and the person was like "WHUT HOW CAN YOU NOT LIEK KARO"

though as i said my annoyance has improved since then :U; But I used to sometimes play an IRC game where I would count the lines you didn't say "I" or "me" in and that was like.. rarely ever there. I am a jerk haaa

From what little I know of you I remember that test said your self-esteem has gone to the dogs. Which ain't good, you don't have any good reasons (that I know of) to hate yourself. You're pretty cool, in multiple ways.

... Yes, that's about as close to criticizing as I can get.

@Taeshi

Maybe this is my problem and not yours, but I dislike the fact that I am hesitant to talk to you because I am constantly worried I will say something wrong and end up depressing you. Even this post here worries me. And, like I said, maybe it is my problem, but your sensitivity still bothers me. I mean, a little self-confidence doesn't hurt anyone, and it is really difficult to sit here and watch someone slowly killing their self with self-defeating thoughts and even paranoia (for the lack of a better word). Maybe I am wrong to say this, since you can't really help it and you certainly do your best not to whine or anything like that, but I just figured I would throw it out there. Then again, maybe I am just oversensitive.

@Lux

Honestly, I don't have anything I dislike about you. I hardly know you. If the next guy would be nice enough to say something in my place, I would appreciate it. If you want, you can say something about me too.

This post has been edited by Meowth: 11 November 2011 - 02:54 AM

Meowth: Haha, tbh I figured you haven't really been so talkative because you've been angry or still bothered about all the drama that's passed, which I'm not saying is something that YOU SHOULD CHANGE GRR HOW DARE YOU, but I kind of miss how it was a lot more casual back then and rather than figure you were just worried about offending me, I instead worried that you were still angry at me. I know you apologised and I definitely appreciated that, but I always felt bad because I figured you felt forced to do it as a way to avoid conflict, rather than actually meaning it.

it sounds so mean, I don't intend to imply it didn't count/matter, more like I want you to be cool or something, rather than still dwelling or whatever. If it helps, I'm certainly not dwelling about it, nor do I think that you would offend me somehow.

though yeah CRAZY CRAZY LIL

poor lux gets generic "don't know enough about you" comments. Also it's not really that the self-esteem has gone to the dogs, more like it's always been chewed up by dogs :-[ It's definitely a problem I have that bothers me because I know how annoying it is when other people are very self-defeatist no matter how much you encourage them, and I'd hate to be that kind of person.

Taeshi, on 11 November 2011 - 03:26 AM, said:

Because I don't really talk to anyone here. xD;; /antisocial/ And the one person who knows enough about me would probably just say "lol ur dum" and then go away. xD Or maybe not... it is Social Studies...

But anyway, it's not annoying, the low self-esteem thing. It especially can't irritated me since I deal(t) with people with it and I myself suffered from the same thing at one point. My stance is that I'll always encourage them anyway. Even if they never pick themselves up, it's nice to just have someone there to tell you, right? Of course, I'd back off if someone told me, but yeah... I try to have a lot of patience when it comes to others.

I hope you'll someday realize that you're better than you think you are, though. :<

I don't like that you use too much the "--/shot" thing. Sometimes it's like you are afraid that what you are saying will offend someone, or you're trying to say something while not really saying it.

I don't like that your new avatar doesn't have sunglasses.

...but no, seriously, I don't like how you'll often say something cryptic or confusing and it'll be really funny, but occasionally you'll say something and I have to spend ten minutes deciding whether there's a hidden joke, and it was meant to a part of the first variety, or it was meant for the second category, (this one), and the point was to make me waste ten minutes trying to figure it out.

This post has been edited by Boringamus: 11 November 2011 - 09:41 AM

Taeshi, I'm sorry my existence is/has been such an annoyance to you, but I do understand. You raise valid points and it largely depends on my sheer lack of character. I'm self centered, and an attention whore, and without a doubt very bitchy and whiny at both. We'd probably get on better if we talked to each other, but I'm actually usually much too scared to say anything if I see you around, much less talk directly to you fearing you'll judge me. But I always felt you didn't particularly like me and I worried you'd like me even less, so never took the initiative.
I'll try to improve my conversation skills or say less if there's nothing I can contribute to a conversation. And yes my hurr durr everyone's terrible in the IRC is really a joke. If I found it that awful a place I wouldn't come at all.

Again refer to Boringamus as the person above you as I haven't anything to contribute since we don't really talk.

This post has been edited by Karo: 11 November 2011 - 09:44 AM

Karo, you lack any form of a face. You really should conform to the world around you and get an image. It's like looking music album with no art to it. Music may be good or bad but there's no face to make all those prejudgement accusations on. Get a face so I can say something else I don't like about it!

Alright let's get this radar ghost out of the way.

Dark, you throw your half-baked observations around when they don't really have any relevance to anything, and you comment before thinking. Or at least, that's the vibe I get from you, and that post right there. I mean, what the fuck are you even saying? It's a bunch of random shit that doesn't really have a bearing.

This is the same problem I have with a few forum goers, actually.

SUSHI YOU

don't bother me much at all

Well honestly the only time you actually irritated me was when you would get really clearly mean to people on the creative arts forum and guise it as "helping", it was the same stuff Sammy used to do though Sammy has totally done a completely full-circle and is definitely the harsh critic he wants to be, whereas you are kind of an ass in general. I think asses can be funny, but when it comes to people trying to improve their art, an ass is honestly not what is needed unless they're a mule that just won't listen like Meleeman or something. Those people in particular definitely deserve the full-on assery, but fact of the matter is not everyone in creative arts is uber talented, and not everyone is going to improve instantly. People who want to be critics should know how much of the criticism the artist can take, some artists improve by leaps and bounds, some artists really need to grasp the basics before moving into pedantic things.

It's a peeve that I have with art critics, there are people who feel like they really know what they're talking about or they're really good critics just because they're "honest" and can say things are shit, but that honestly doesn't help! I've always been of the belief that you can dislike someone's work, so long as you can explain why and how they can improve. Because saying "this is shit and you're shit" isn't helpful, and it's quite irritating to assume they're anti-critique if they get offended. There's plenty of critics who have to deal with whiny anti-critique artists, but I roll my eyes at people who clearly try to get a rise out of the artist and then go "LIGHTEN UP!!!" if they start arguing back. It's not very fair.

You haven't posted in Creative Arts in ages though so it's not that relevant anymore, but I honestly think you're a very bad critic.

also there was a period of time a person would make one dumb post and you would get on the uber-offensive and treat them like shit and that always bothers me, I know there's people who are like "wahh wahh wahh the forums are so hard to get into EVERYONE IS SO ANTISOCIAL" and I think those people are whiny bitches, but the way you get instantly mean to someone making something rather innocuous is kind of lame. I noticed that when I used to go to Recess and I don't know if that's relevant anymore because Recess is a cesspool and I don't visit it anymore except to check if Jeff fucked up again and is casually seeking praise.

hurrhurr

The biggest thing that annoys me about you Taeshi is that I can never tell at any one moment how you will react to something I say/do. Sometimes you're sarcastic and silly, sometimes your logical and stone faced, sometimes your easily angered and quick to tell me off, and others you're gunshy and timid/self deprecating.

I NEVER KNOW WHAT TO SAY OR DO AROUND YOU!

It also irritates me when I'm getting upset at SuitCase for being his typical robot without even a shred of empathy, and you basically get angry at me for being upset.

Otherwise I have no real issues. We're the bestest of bro's from browtown brohio.

brotown brohio hahahahaahahahahahahahahah

YEAH I AM TOTES BORDELINING UP IN THIS BITCH YO

Your anger issues frighten me, sometimes I worry about arguing with you because I figure you will get really angry and lash out. It's not that I assume you will be physically violent, but people who raise their voice and show clear aggression really get me on my toes, so sometimes when you're in an argument with Titan I get paranoid hoping Titan doesn't say something clearly tactless because he's Titan.

And I think your anger is the reason why I get angry at you for getting angry at Souppy. I guess I don't really ever see why people should get particularly mad at him, and to be honest it seems you talked with him enough to be more than aware his way of arguing. Which is basically "I am right and if you really defend yourself then I will consider it, otherwise I will think you're wrong." Fact of the matter is there exists bad opinions, not saying you are the bearer of bad opinions, but just I'm sure you've defended yourself in many arguments before where you feel confident you're correct even though you have an opinion. So it confuses me when Souppy says "you're wrong" and you feel like it's a complete and utter insult to your intelligence and that Souppy is not allowed to think he's right. Because I'm sure you think you're right as well! Souppy is just more of a stubborn mule about it. There's been like two times I can remember where I argued enough where he paused and went ".. oh, well i didn't think about it that way", otherwise it's always just agree to disagree. And it seems you're very adamant not to have it end that way which is why your arguments with Souppy always end badly. And it's not that it makes me angry that you get angry, it's more I just think "haven't you learned?"

So I'm put in a position where it's either to defend you or him, and to be honest I tend to veer towards the person who is keeping their cool rather than the one who is clearly getting mad. Which I'm sorry about, it's not really just "oh souppy is right all the time and i will never defend you", I just feel like aaaaaaaaaa don't get like butthurt or something you know????

Don't really have any issues with Taeshi personally! Though in the art side of things, a part of me is eager to see you move beyond your simple webcomic style. Like, I think if you tried perspective a little more in combination with composition, your storytelling capabilities wouldn't be limited to just comics. Not sure what your current priorities are, but I'd like to see you take a break from the comic and post personal work unrelated to BCB or your school.

This post has been edited by Marshmallow: 11 November 2011 - 11:57 AM

I hate not only how good your art is, but how quickly you seem to improve...

Okay, hate not be the word. But jealous much

yeah "hurpa durp why are you so great" are not exactly valid things to "dislike" about a person. It's called jealousy. It's different.

I have no idea who Voluntas is sadly. I've never properly interacted with... Him?

I'm not going to get into an argument about it, but basically, 90% of my arguments with SuitCase are me saying "In my opinion, I think this is better. That is why I like it. But I think that your thing is p. interesting too, and I can understand why you like it, I just don't agree with that stance." (The most common statement I'll preface this with is "Different strokes for different folks".)

And I tend to register it as a personal attack when Suit responds "I don't have an opinion that my thing is better. I have a fact that it is better. You're just an idiot who likes bad things." Which IMO is pretty insulting :\

I TRY to basically go "Yeah well [insert joke about him & his thing being sexually intimate]." and let it go. And I did that for a while. But he seemed to get upset at me for no longer actually hashing it out with him and acted annoyed that I was being dismissive of a fight I didn't want to have for a forgone conclusion I knew was coming, because I have accepted that no matter how much I might know that what I like about my thing is possible to back up, I'm not nearly as interested/obsessive about it to be researching it constantly to have the fodder to throw back at him. This is why I keep saying I'd like to see him and Paul argue because Paul DOES obsess over this stuff and WOULD have the relevant links and info to back up his argument, and I'm interested to see what Suit's reaction is to that.

Paul is very similar in the way he argues, except I feel that he's gotten better at having empathy towards people so that he's able to register things on a level other than pure unadulterated logic. This is why I think he and I don't argue as much anymore, because while SuitCase will see me say "Oh wow. I really like X" and then will go onto a long diatribe about why I'm an idiot for thinking that, Paul's more inclined to go "Oh? I prefer Y. What do you like about X? I see. I can get that. Just not my thing." Which cuts out a lot of the pointless teeth gnashing.

Ugh... I'm sorta rambling at this point and I've gone way off topic. Basically, yeah, I have anger issues built up from 12 years or so of hardcore bullying & being talked down to/treated like I'm an idiot when I feel I'm at least averagely intelligent, and I have trouble not biting when somebody waves that particular hook in my face. If somebody starts playing the "I'm a dick so just deal with it" role like Suit or TD, with no sense of irony or fun, it rubs me the wrong way in a REAL bad way. So if I DO just shrug it off, it's probably through grit teeth and I'll probably get really mad about it later for no reason when I think back on it. Don't really know what I can do about that any more than you know how to stop feeling guilty about things from 5 years ago.

say gunshy more

I don't have a good read on you, Suit. It's hard for me to figure out if you like me or hate me, but I'm pretty sure that you just don't really care, like I'm not interesting enough for you to pay attention to. I'd like to be able to talk to you online like we did at BCB Con or the time I picked you guys up from the airport, but the conversations you usually chip in to are usually ones that I know nothing about. I'm not saying you have to make a more conscious effort to talk to me, though. That'd make me feel like I'm making you do something that you don't want to do.