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Haven't you heard, Susan? We're a composite being now. Something went wrong during the really hot buttsex a while back, and we merged.


Honestly, there's a lot a dislike about you. You're mean, you make inflammatory remarks, call people niggers and faggots, you're not very tolerant of viewpoints besides your own, especially when it comes to religion.


But that totally does not excuse the way I treated you in the irc tonight, just saying

This post has been edited by Smash Genesis: 15 November 2011 - 04:00 AM

That sounds like nigger faggot speak. Just saying.

Honestly, some people on this forum can be grade A assholes, but they're easier to deal with. What really irks me are people who are, as it was said, too nice to the point that it gets condescending. Enough of the special snowflake crap and tiptoeing around our words like 'you know, that's just an opinion, hope I didn't hurt anyone's feelings because you're all awesome '.

Bourbon the only thing I could dislike about you is your name.

Mother fucker why you tempt me.

Other than that, I would have to say that you seem kind of boring? Not to be mean, I just mean, whenever I hear from you, you just sound so "Run of the mill".

Grass, you always say you will do things but never do and I am utterly convinced that you will never amount to anything of value, and you cannot hide behind the veil of your age because there are smart people younger than you are. To sum it up, stop pretending you are hot shit without doing anything.

oh man i already touched ace but i have to cover grass

grass
you need to
stop typing
like this
on IRC
it's really
fucking annoying
and spammy
you realise you can
make sentences
full sentences
before entering
you know?

IT'S SUCH A PAIN AND I WANT TO KICK YOU SOMETIMES FOR IT, IT'S A REALLY ANNOYING TYPING HABIT ESPECIALLY WHEN THE IRC IS REALLY BUSY AND IT GETS FLOODED WITH YOUR WEIRD TYPING. It makes it harder to grasp your train of thought, and I wish you could knock it off and type more normally.

Also I don't know if I covered Smash, but while Susan accused him and Starwatcher of being similar, I absolutely have to disagree. They're not similar at all. Because Starwatcher is a genuinely nice person. He means what he says, and he withholds judgement of people and is probably one of the kinder guys here, second to ILB.

Smash always gives this vibe of fakeness and is actually a really judgemental and bullheaded person. He tries to give off this vibe of niceness, but it always feels veiled by a holier-than-thou attitude, like being "a soft-spoken guy" shows that you're just oh-so-nice and people should like you, because you're so mature for your age and you're just SUCH A NICE GUY, then you shoot off really nasty things about people and judge people who aren't anything but Starwatcher. It's really awful. I absolutely dislike your attitude, and it shows with your taste in people.


Edit: Also holy shit i read up on the whole susan drama and smash

please

for the love of god

do not become a counsellor.

you're really fucking bad at it

you're going to fuck people up even further if the behaviour your displayed in that chat is going to display your future behaviour towards patients

you're unsympathetic and genuinely terrible

please leave depressed people alone

i still would not go to you for counselling if i was freaken paid to do it.

Also Susan yeah I used to dislike you tons back in the day but I think you're tops now, though I think you absolutely get carried away by your emotions. You hate criticism, and if people are critical of you, you really flip your shit. You always talk about how the world doesn't matter and that people don't matter, that you have feelings of stone, and all that other stuff, but you really can be whiny when you want to be. You have many moments where you break down and freak out and people are trying desperately to help you and you don't let anyone in, and you start shooting off remarks about how nobody cares and start overblowing things, and people are left still trying to help you because there's people that care a lot. I feel guilty to say, but sometimes I just step back. Because you just don't stop, nobody can talk you out of what you're saying and you're really stubborn. And that makes me feel shitty as a friend. It's kind of like how Spacemouse can go on a tirade about how much he hates himself, and once upon a time I used to panic and worry, but now it's kind of like "here we go again", it's like with you, because I know the only real solution is to listen and you/Mousey to calm down. And I guess that's that. I don't really know what to do, it's that kind of freak-out self-hating that really bothers me because you throw away all aspects of what is actually positive in your life.

i mean then again i do the same but only to souppy HA /slitwristsetc

Ace you need to realize that I have never, in all seriousness, said I am better than other people, or tried to act like I am. I have, in jokes and such, but never seriously. You seem to have some kind of distaste and just plain dislike someone who is, in fact, a teenager. I'm not going to say Thats the thing that gets me off, because it doesn't. It just that i'm not fully mature, and its not age that decides this, it is that I am, I know I need to grow up some, and that every day I like to think I grow a little. I don't even think i'm hot shit, I do, however, think I am pretty worthless and will, most likely, not make anything of myself.

--
Tae:
I have to blame that on older chats i used to go to. It was so hectic sometimes that I got into the habit of not finishing my sentences so people HAVE to pay attention to see what i'm saying. I do know I should really knock it off.

This post has been edited by Grass: 15 November 2011 - 05:43 AM

Ohh this seems fun. I want to get in on this topic.

Grass, your overuse of commas is beyond obnoxious. Read your post aloud and say comma, then pause a bit at each comma you read. Also, I'm bothered by the fact that you pulled the, "You only hate me because you hate all teenagers." card and then proceeded to explain why you are they way you are while stating it's not because of you being a teenager which in fact makes it sound like that is indeed the reason why. Finally, you stated, "I'm worthless and won't amount to anything ever." and that strikes me as you either want to use that as an excuse for how you are or that you want other people to feel bad for you.

Minty, I never said he hates all teenagers, nor did I want people to feel bad for me. I am just fully aware that I am just one person in a big world, who really isn't cut out to make anything really big of himself.
It's just a fact of life.

Grass, on 15 November 2011 - 03:11 PM, said:

PFFFFFFfffft.
That argument works both ways

The fact that you didn't offer anything constructive kind of bothers me, unless I'm misunderstanding you.

You're... really sarcastic, if I recall correctly. I can't remember a post where you were serious--or meant what you said, at the very least. So in other words, you never state things plainly, from what I've seen.

I feel like you sometimes put on a slightly false façade. You act like this happy, chirpy, bright individual, but whenever I've conversed directly with you, you've acted like this sarcastic, cynical grump machine. I don't know whether I'm mistaking you for someone else, but it just annoys me how you can't keep up an act for long enough to deal with niggling problems. Also, the premise for your story is unlikely at best, although it is very well-written.

The only time I have displayed apathy/antipathy on this forum is in Jeff's topic, so I think you must be mistaking me for someone else... You might be caricaturing it--sometimes I'm all "hi everyone!" but if I'm just not feeling it I end up looking more dull, but... I wouldn't necessarily say I'm unfriendly and cynical. :< Although, it's your opinion, so who am I to try to change that?

And don't worry! Closure will be provided for the story! Although I'm not sure what I mean what you mean by unlikely... Also I'm glad you think it's well-written. 8D

YOUR NAME IS NOT AN AWESOME SONG APPARENTLY.

THAT ANSWER WAS BAD AND YOU SHOULD FEEL BAD

Seriously, every time this thread seems to pick up momentum we hit a speed bump of a post. Frowny face.

I find you to be unintelligent even though I know that the majority of that opinion comes from your manner of speaking and not the idea content in your posts.
Like most annoying things, it's unreasonable of me to feel annoyed. That self reflection is probably the true source of the irritation. It usually is.

I dislike you because you make me think negatively about me.

This post has been edited by Craft aids: 15 November 2011 - 11:12 PM

Well that's one thing I can say right away with that I don't agree with--that you let other people's opinions adversely affect how you think about yourself. Although, the meaning there was somewhat obscure, so I might be misunderstanding you.

I dislike that you are posting about things that you disagree with rather then things that you don’t like.
I dislike that you think that his opinions negatively affected me when I expressly said that his manner of speaking annoyed me but his actual ideas did not annoy me.
I dislike that you could not understand that I think that my own fealings are unreasonable even though I said jsut that.

I actualy dislike that I was not clear enough. This self reflection is probably the true sorce of my irritation. It usualy is.

This post has been edited by Craft aids: 15 November 2011 - 11:21 PM

Responses to each, respectively...

Craft aids, on 15 November 2011 - 11:17 PM, said:

I dislike that you are so strictly adhering to the topic title as to believe that flaws have to be disliked in order to exist--I don't always dislike flaws, I disagree with them or merely point them out.
I dislike how that seemingly contradicts this:

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I dislike that you are making unrealistic extrapolations. I am not fond of the fact that your feelings are unreasonable--I never said I didn't understand that you thought that as well. Think of it as mutual agreement, rather than misunderstanding.

This post has been edited by Lux Aeterna: 15 November 2011 - 11:33 PM

I dislike how I couldn't tell if Craft was referring to me or Bellboy. I'd assume me, since I was next, but I didn't understand what he was referring to...

Lux, I don't like how you have to argue every little point. Does it really hurt you to just not mention something you disagree with/don't understand? I mean, you can ask and debate sometimes, fine, but this seemed small and trivial and you guys are already going at it, analyzing each sentence. Just relax brah.

Inb4 I'm a giant hypocrite.

Lux Aeterna, on 15 November 2011 - 09:32 PM, said:

There is no truer way for me to say things. If someone lies to your face (and supposing that you posses the wisdom to see so), do you not see the truth, even though only lies were said?
What I'm saying is that this is who I am. This is how I say things. I communicate the messages that I'm really thinking.

Secondly; The argument does work both ways. If an individual thinks he is inferior compared to the masses (which is only so because the comparison is horribly mis-matched) then how could the mass be considered 'superior', when compiled of 'inferior' people?

Now I will take the example the other way.
For example, Grass would want to become world famous and go down in history books and be remembered by man for all of time. What makes man's value of Grass so important?
To take Grass's quote slightly out-of-context: "I am just fully aware that I am just one person in a big world, who really isn't cut out to make anything really big of himself". Now replace Grass with the human race, and 'big world' with 'Star system, Universe and multiple planes of existence'.
By comparison, the human race has now been devalued, so anything Grass did would be worthless anyway.

I usually don't really like what you post. Maybe it was when you were on a streak of shitposts or something.

Remember, quality, not quantity.

This post has been edited by Codysseus: 16 November 2011 - 02:07 AM

@Bourbon: That, well... Yeah, you're right. I guess it stems from the fact that I used to be accused on being vague on my points. But instead of expanding a little, I went from the sublime to the ridiculous...

I've been criticized that by my friends, girlfriend, family, etc. I'm not good at moderation in general. :<

Codysseus, on 16 November 2011 - 02:07 AM, said:

I should improve the quality of my shitposts...?

I honestly find it impossible to respect anything you say. you just shitpost so much and are generally very dumb about things.

if there is some brain behind that thick skull, I beg you: use it!

I dislike that you promised me to watch all of Evangelion, and yet have only made it up to episode 21.

I dislike that he forgets to remind me.
also, when I am gone for more than one day you act like I dropped off the face of the earth.


but back to the evangelion yeah there's this thing called schoolwork which is taking up about eleven or so hours of my day.

...BUT I AM GUILTY NOW AAAAAA
I WILL TRY TO WATCH SOME OF IT TONIGHT IF I can find my headphones.

This post has been edited by Chris: 16 November 2011 - 03:54 AM

@Chris: Not really a biggie, but I dislike how you sometimes must resort to insults (though pretty small ones) when arguing.

So, if there's something I want to say about someone else, I just drop it here right? Some people seem to be doing it.

This post has been edited by ZoeStellan: 16 November 2011 - 04:25 AM

Your obsession with Amaya really irritates me and you seem really annoying and needy on IRC. Also you get all whiny and offended when people kick you, which makes me want to kick you more.

I try to ignore anything you do because it will most-likely involve that overrated character again, creeping it up with your dumb OC.

@Taeshi: The stuff I don't like is that you tend to blow stuff out of proportion whenever something bad happens. Additionally, I've seen that you tend to call others "an idiot" whenever their views oppose yours.

Also, in response to your post, I don't recall a single time where I was being annoying or needy. When I must talk to someone, I always just call them once and if there's no response I just leave it and try some other time, assuming that person is busy at the moment. Dunno where you got the idea that I was needy.

About the kicking, you also can't really say its something that describes me, as it's something that has happened a total of 1 time. I don't mind getting kicked, but what really got me mad was seeing Radial kick Antares just for disagreeing with him. I saw it as abuse of power, so I jumped at it. Then SuitCase comes and kicks me for what I understood were ironic purposes. (And I then later was explained that's how Radial and Antares get along, so meh)

And lastly, I just can't help that I like Amaya, so you'll just have to deal with that. Sorry if it annoys you so much. Though I still think you're kind of exaggerating on that too, since I barely talk about her now. All that's related to her now are my drawings and my forum avatar. And yeah, she is a kinda overrated character, don't really know why she has so many followers. The reason I like her is because of some personal significance she has to me, so at least I can assure you that I just didnt go "Ok time to be a hipster and like an obscure background character!". Also, hes a persona.

P.S. Damn, didn't know you felt so negatively about me though. Thought we were on neutral grounds. I doubt you will want to but, maybe we should talk one day and sort things out, as I really dont like leaving stuff like this. I think this is mostly a misunderstanding between us (minus the Amaya part).

This post has been edited by ZoeStellan: 16 November 2011 - 05:27 AM

I think you're very, very weird and I honestly do not like you very much.

The obsession with Amaya is something I view as creepy, and when you brought that plushie to BCB Con it solidified my aversion towards you. I find it shallow and socially unacceptable to get so attached to a fictional character, especially one who is as insignificant as Amaya beyond being a plot device. It's just not mentally right in my eyes.

Then yeah, that one day you got all pissed off about Radial kicking you was pretty annoying and stupid. I really dislike it when people get whiney about these kind of things, especially when they don't know the context (you did not know Radial and Antares joke like that). You're not the chat's police and white knights are pretty fucking stupid.

I could think of more but late and tired.

well zoe, I really have to agree with taeshi on this one. you are really into amaya, to the point where sometimes it's a bit uncomfortable. I don't have any specific examples, but I vaguely remember a few times where I thought to myself "yeah ok we get it geez, you like amaya!"

but honestly you are a really cool person and this is the only thing I can really dislike about you. you tend to be a honest and upbeat person, and I enjoy having you as a friend, so please don't take this as an insult or anything.


you're a good guy! you just need to relax with the amaya thing.

EDIT:

well sue kinda jumped in front of me here, but I dont really have much I dislike about her. despite her rabid self hate, she is cool and interesting, and I find the great majority of her posts intriguing or amusing. if you like, respond to her instead of me.

This post has been edited by Chris: 16 November 2011 - 05:42 AM

I'm also going to be honest Susan, but you're pretty much the only person on the community that I don't like.

You just seem to jump and attack people for no apparent reason when they come in, and you get annoyed by the slightest things that don't even have anything to do with you. You also seem uncapable to ever be nice to someone.

This is where it kinda gets personal, but you also hurt people that care about you. I'm sure most people know what I'm talking about, but still it doesnt feel right to post other people's dirty laundry here. You run away from responsibility, and succumb to pressure from other people, resulting in this.

You're also very negative and closed minded, which makes it very hard to other people to interact with you.

You bash newbies, and make this place seem like one where they are not welcome. Again, for doing stuff that arbitrarily pisses you off.

Also, it was SuitCase, not Radial who kicked me. On top of that, given that I had a different context at the time (Radial pretty much seemed like an elitist prick whenever I came into the irc back then), it didnt help much towards the situation.

EDIT: Oops, Chris, you kinda got in between.

This post has been edited by ZoeStellan: 16 November 2011 - 05:52 AM

Maybe people should just respond to people they actually have something to say about, regardless if their post is above them or not. If only so we can avoid the, "I don't know you so I have nothing to say about you." posts. I know it says don't post if you have nothing to say, but a few times it seemed like the topic came to an abrupt halt for a while because of it. Either people posting, "I don't know you so I'm going to make up something ridiculous." or "I don't know you so I have nothing to say about you." or people just not posting at all because someone posted and very few people had anything to say about that person.

It just seems easier to be able to participate in this topic that way.

Zoe: I got the idea that you're needy because of the one topic where your peeve was people who don't pay attention to you when you're conversing with them. That spells needy to me, and there are just some times I don't want to talk to you on IRC, and knowing about your pet peeve I roll my eyes and wonder if I'm being annoying by sometimes ignoring you for other people. It's a very entitled mentality to have. Sometimes I'm juggling so many people that it's hard to balance it, and other times I just plain don't want to talk to you. So that seems whiny and needy to me.

Also you gotta be kidding me that you're trying to defend your obsession with Amaya. It's really hilarious. You're basically known as the creep that creeps on Amaya, so many people think that! It's pretty unnerving you're getting defensive about every point that has been made about you.

Minty: I agree, admittedly I've taken on the habit that if I don't have anything to say about the person before me, but have a lot to say about the person a few posts earlier, I will comment on the latter person instead.

what should have been an edit:
Oh, hi tae!
Some people like waching fat people step on food.
Some people like amaya.
Most people like invading the internal organs of others wherever there happens to be an entrance.
That summs up most of my momentary opinion on you.

This post has been edited by Craft aids: 16 November 2011 - 06:09 AM

Some people are gonna get special ed

Taeshi: Well, its because people say they dont like me over one-time-only things. I would understand if it did happen often, but with the exception of everything related to Amaya, everything you have mentioned has only happened once. So I don't think its fair to be judged on that.

Craft, unless he has changed since making a return, gets too picky when arguing. There was always a debate to be had with him, which isn't all that bad really, but just some of the time he goes completely off topic and derails the whole conversation with semantics.

Susan, on 16 November 2011 - 05:32 AM, said:

So it would be less weird if he was into Lucy or Daisy in the same way?

Zoe, I have no problem with the guy, I have never actually seen him going on about all this supposed Amaya worship though. That thread a while back asking for an Amaya key chain (or was it a plushie?) was about it.

This post has been edited by matty_batty0: 16 November 2011 - 06:21 AM

Zoe: With that logic, feelings after first impressions should not be valid because it only happened once. Sorry, but sometimes one event can cause a person to be irritated at another person, or have a bad impression.

Matty: Hahaha, what? No, it would be just as creepy. Pretty sure there have been topics in the forums where a person expressed absolute creep-factor towards a character like Lucy and got scolding for it. There's no double-standards. I'm sure there's added annoyance since Amaya is such an overrated character (So in comes the factor of "Why do you like such a dumb character so much?") whereas Lucy/Daisy actually have a lot more personality and more of a valid reason for people to sympathise and care for them, but the irk that people get is still the same.

Well, can't really argue with that. Just thought that by now you would know me better and have a different idea.

This post has been edited by ZoeStellan: 16 November 2011 - 06:21 AM

is this the part where i'm supposed to call you an idiot for disagreeing or something

Yep, this would be it.

The Amaya thing hasn’t bothered me actually. Yeah Zoe kept making Amaya based stuff like the keychain thread, and the MineCraft art but I’ve never seen Zoe actually freak out about it like a crazed fan. There’s nothing similar to ‘AW GOD I <3 AMAYAAA ’.

Uh, Zoe’s a pal. While you do check up on me every once in a while you have the worst timing when you do it. I’m either afk, doing something important, or generally busy which I dislike, because this suggests I never have time to spend with friends and I worry you might think I’m uninterested in what you do or avoiding you. Sometimes you say things that don’t make sense to me like Amaya’s ranking and other things and it also feels like you avoid conflict. But yes, I enjoy chatting with you. I can talk to you about stuff like Engineering and personal life.

MouseCat<Your name reminds of a time when my cat left a dead mouse in my shoe.

Now then, may the next poster have at me.

There was a rather serious moment on the IRC, and you were a complete ass. Learn to know when it's okay to joke.

Also, if you're going to post something in this thread, think of something more substantial than "Oh, you're name reminds me of something which I don't like." If you actually don't like something about the person himself/herself this is where you would post it. Save those low-quality posts for the "Say something about the person above you thread".

This post has been edited by Codysseus: 16 November 2011 - 03:05 PM

It really irks me that you spend so much time in recess. you are very, very smart, and I would really like to see you post more in ss, becuase your opinions interest me

I hate that the person above me killed this thread.


come on, there must be something that you guys hate about me. go ahead. I can take it. (I can think of many things )

That seems kind of attention whoring, you commenting on yourself and everything. The thread hasn't been dead for 24 hours, that happens sometimes. Be glad everyone isn't climbing over each other to tell you how much they despise your presence, how the very thought of you fills their mouths and hearts full of bile and hate.

I'm annoyed that you sometimes are serious, but at the end add a joke. It isn't really necessary and makes your post seem less serious. Probably just me though. P.S: Don't do the I dislike you because I don't know who you are. That's just stupid. (as in the person that'll be below me.)

This post has been edited by Araal: 19 November 2011 - 05:46 AM

How exactly is anyone supposed to judge you when you have only five active posts?