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If I could ban someone from posting in this topic, it would be you. None of your posts have been good in this topic, and it does not need to be bumped. People need to stop reviving this unless someone has anything of merit to say.

Seriously, I might as well delete your posts. This is not Recess.

Is too generous. Should ask for Suitcase to make that a option/ ability for moderators.

Araal's been on the IRC a little, bacon, so people can know him a little from there. Araal seemed a bit childish in the IRC, but I guess I do, too, so that's cool by me.

Cpt Bacon was a bit quick to dismiss people's arguments from one topic I kind of remember, and kinda has an "I am right and you are wrong!" attitude on occasion. On the other hand he does very often show some very convincing and well backed arguments himself, so yeah...

What bothers me most about Tae is one specific hypocrisy. She's completely self conscious about her art and has admitted to self esteem issues, but very often takes a stance of "if you can't take the heat, get out of the kitchen!"
I think this might be a bit of influence from Suit who almost always has this attitude anyway, but at least he's less contradicting about it.
Then of course there's the fact that Tae apparently dislikes me for some reason I still don't quite know of (I have some theories, but I don't want to write a huge wall of text). While in many cases I wouldn't mind someone randomly disliking me, I do feel like Taeshi and some other people in here are interesting and worth trying to be friends with. Her position of influence in the community does mean I've gotten a few nasty remarks from people who feel they have to do everything just like tae does, though. On top of that, asking to keep me out of the Skype chat was just plain rude of you, Tae, especially considering I say very little when in there anyway.

So if you have self-esteem issues, you're not allowed to have that stance? It's not like I'm expecting people to go easy on me, nor do I ever write for people to not critique me, nor do I send people off to do my bidding when I'm badmouthed. Quite the contrary, so I don't know where you got that hypocrisy bullshit. I do react badly to criticism, but more in a huge desire to improve, and feeling really upset that I cannot improve sooner. My reaction to the heat is the absolute opposite, rather than curling up and telling people to stop.

But at the end of the day, if I react, I know it's my own stupid fault and rather than go "you guys are meaaaann" I'm like "no I'm gonna try and work through this and maybe whinge to Souppy," nobody has to hold back anything. So I'm totally willingly putting my hands in the fire.

I dislike you because you're an idiot. Like I feel really confident in saying that, I know I've been called out for casually referring to people as idiots and a lot of the time I tend to exaggerate and even joke with the word, but I really do believe you are an idiot. You have really bigoted, moronic, ignorant opinions about practically everything, and everything that comes out of your mouth you say as if it's factual and scientific, when it's absolutely wrong and shows signs of a person that just has not done the research. You're obnoxious, try to act smart when saying the dumbest nonsense, you're conceited, and you try to push stuff that people find really annoying into their face, one minor point being your stupid PauloxSue fetish. There's been so many times we've argued and I've said your opinions are just terrible, and it seems you always tend to have them, so in turn I find you ignorant and irritating and I can't stand you. I don't see how it's random at all, and it's not even a case of disagreeing with someone, it's a case of your opinions just being absolutely toxic to me.

Also when did I say to keep you out of skype? Now you're just making shit up, I have never said such a thing. I only really said that once and that was with Grass and not you, because he wouldn't shut up about Rye and I didn't wanna deal with Grass masturbating over Rye on voicechat as well as IRC. And maybe Little Shota a few times but Ryuk hated him enough to keep him out without my discretion, but I am the type to just tolerate people that I find irritating, if I did not, wouldn't you have been banned ages ago?

You assume all this random shit and make up all these backhanded statements as if the people in the community are sheep and could NEVER hate someone like YOU, it just HAS to be my influence! You say this shit so much, and then you turn around and wonder why I don't like you! I know times on IRC when people are rambling about fancharacters for example, with obvious sympathisers like Mousey and Gnukko and Radial, and you still have the gall to go "hurpadurp tae sure does have her army of haters at her disposal", and laugh it on like you're some kind of lighthearted comedian when it's really just bitter whiny backhanded shit. You could say "Oh durpadurp I was just joking!" but saying that people have been jerks to you because of my influence proves you're not just horsing around and actually believe this crap.

Alright then, I'll stop.
17 hours isn't a long time though.
Feel free to delete my posts, I don't mind. It's not like I'm going to contend you over such a small thing

Huge wall of text. Doesn't apply to most people, I guess.

I guess I just expected you to be able to understand people's position in these situations and have a little more compassion is all. I think it was Roger Daltrey who said that a beginning artist is like a delicate flower. Not everyone started their art when they were 5 years old and have already grown past the defensive stage.

You say we've argued so many times (a handful or so at most, by my count) and that my opinions are terrible. I don't understand quite what you mean by that, though. Most of the time our opinions weren't even diverging and we discussed over some minor details.

The Skype thing must have been a misunderstanding. I was kept out of Skype once for whatever mysterious reason and I just assumed it was you because you had done it to grass a few days before. My bad.

I think you fail to realise your position in this community sometimes tae. You are not just one more of the bro's that hang out here. You created this place, you keep it running, you automatically start with the respect of everyone who enters here. Let nobody say it is undeserved, but it does mean that anything and everything you do, people will take more seriously and consider more than anything anyone else does here. Antoine de Saint-Exupéry said "You become responsible, forever, for what you have tamed." and there is some truth to that.
Fancharacters had been around here ever since I first saw BCB and your hatred for them used to be nothing more then a running joke until the "phancharacter menace" thread, and then suddenly three quarters of the community hates fancharacters. People over-reacted to that so badly that they shunned away some (young!) readers who were getting brave in the booru. You can't deny the influence you have here. I'm sure you never intended for people to rage about it as they did, but because of your position here, because people admire you, many of our opinions will be shaped by yours.
This is just one (rather extreme) example. My comment about people being nasty because of your influence is a much softer one. Almost everyone here is really friendly and has been very friendly every since I've been here. I have made some good friends in the IRC and gotten more involved with people than I had thought possible over the Internet. With other people I interacted less but always had a feeling of friendliness around anyhow. Ever since you openly stated your dislike for me a few people changed their shift, though, and avoided me or were curt and blunt when talking to me on the IRC. Unlike the fancharacter example, where it was newbies who were most influenced (most newbies don't even know / care who I am), in this case a few of the IRC regulars were affected and I felt kinda sad about it. (Not in a condescending way, in before someone accuses me. Sad because I thought these were people I could be friends with.)
Please note I'm not accusing you to have a flawed personality, Taeshi. I'm just responding to your post. It's not even necessarily a flaw in other person's personality. It's natural to be influenced by people who you respect or admire. Though it's good to hope that people will try and think more about their choices sometimes.

To be honest I don't think we've touched the root of the problem here, though. I think at some point you had a bad impression of me and after that just interpreted anything I said negatively. Things just escalated from there. It might be because of Paulo x Sue, I'm sorry if that offends you somehow and I can drop it if you feel strongly about it. It might have been when I admitted to being uncomfortable around gay men. It might have been at some other point I don't remember. As I said before, you're a smart interesting person who I respect very much. I would prefer not to be hated or disliked or shunned by you, and I'm willing to take steps for it. If you're willing to talk things out, feel free to call me up on it in the IRC.

Maan, what a cop out answer. I wanted more warfare, damnit. I had my Micheal Jackson popcorn gif all ready and everything >:I

To lighten up a suddenly very wordy thread, my only real problems with Migrant is his tone. He sounds very...I can't think of a word. I just get this feeling that he writes and proofreads and edits the crap out of what he wants to say, to the point where it sounds less like a person and more like a college essay. I don't get a lot of emotion or idiosyncrasies from him at all, it's sorta robotic almost.

Also, my first impression of him was in the IRC, where he gave me a super low score on some BCB quiz because I thought McCainxSue was an okay pairing, and apparently he doesn't agree. I got a very opinionated vibe off of that, as silly as the subject was.

Pfft, Bourbon takes the questions as serious business

Bourbon seems a bit dodgy to me. He generates a lot of arguments, including his first post on the forum, normally due to annoying misunderstandings or just his general attitude. I still don't know exactly why he was banned from ratemydrawings.com but on his photobucket account he had a lot of "haters gonna hate" gifs, it sort of cast a shadow on his character, maybe you could clear this up?

Also, a cop out answer? Migrant's post seemed pretty good to me.

This post has been edited by matty_batty0: 22 November 2011 - 02:32 PM

Yeah, it was a good post, that's why it's a cop out. I was saying I wanted a big fight

My 'Haters gonna hate' gifs weren't really for RMD anyway, but I can see how that'd give me a troll vibe. Really, I was banned because the site's direction changed. I had this small group of friends that ended up being called 'the Gang' and it was good for a while, but the newbies thought we were like some real official group and would ask to join us and clog our conversations up like woah, and the admin felt we had a 'responsibility to the site' to be role models. When he felt we weren't a good enough influence, he deleted all out threads claiming they drew too much attention, and the site now caters to 12 year old little otaku fucks. My ban was asked for, I couldn't stand the new whitewashed way things were run to the point where 'jerk' and 'stupid' were blocked words. I'm running off a tangent here, but yeah, it's not like I'm one to troll, I just argue a lot.

This post has been edited by Bourbon: 22 November 2011 - 02:51 PM

Bumping this cause I guess people here know each other a little better especially for me.

I don't have a lot to say about Bourbon but I find him irrationally stubborn -- he seems to drag things out in arguments.

That's funny, because that's something I could say about you. And it's even funnier because that's something that migrant said about me.

I think this has more to do with our perceptions of others than the those we are perceiving.

Anyways, I guess I could say that I feel like I've seen you take some things a little too seriously sometimes. But so have a lot of people here. Probably me to.

You seem very cynical and embittered. That isn't necessarily a bad thing, it's just whenever there's a discussion of love, you seem to be the first one to remind everyone that love has a lot of downsides and isn't all candycanes and rainbows. Maybe that's just in my head? But I'm not sure it is, and while I don't know much about love, I know there's a lot of good things about it too and it can get kind of annoying having someone constantly remind us all how much love can suck when we get the picture.

while we may be good friends, I find it very difficult to reconcile your inability to grasp the gravity of certain situations.

A prime example would be last week, where I came to you looking to vent after finding out a very close friend of mine is terminaly ill. I Believe the conversation went like this.

<Chrispy> Hey man can we talk?
<SmashGenisis> sure man, what's up?
<Chrispy> I kinda need to talk to someone.
<SmashGenisis> Ok, what's wrong
<Chrispy> well right now, I'm drinking because I found out one of my friends is going to die, and I can't do anything about it.
<SmashGenisis> Is the booze good?
<Chrispy> Excuse me?
<SmashGenisis> Is the booze good?
<SmashGenisis> like, do you have any of the good stuff?
<Chrispy> That's really not the issue right now
<SmashGenisis> But is it good?
<Chrispy> ...


Like this is not the only time this has happened
you have missed the point of these things a few times. It feels like a weak criticism, but It's really All I have for you, and that's been bugging me for a while. although I will give you this, you did eventually in that example, realize your mistake and say sorry.

I die a little inside every time you remind me of your political stance.

As much as I respect you, I have to say it bugs me that back in the transgender protocol thread you you like "Whoops, conservatives are all dumbfucks." It's really judgemental. I don't agree with conservatives, but not listening to Nate once he said that was just dumb.
Also, you're really cool and everyone admires you, but you're really just a troll. A witty one at that, but a troll nonetheless.

I dislike exclamation marks in names, that's the best I can come up with.

You are one of the worst posters here, because everything you post is just retarded. you have poor grammar, poor wit, and a poor grasp on the topics you post in. almost everything you say aggravates me to no end, and if you do say something worthwhile, it's ruined by your terrible grammar/English skills.


also shitposting.

i hate your username/ you associate yourself with dumb idiot people/ you hold boring conversations in the irc

RC!, on 31 March 2012 - 05:45 PM, said:

fuck you

CaptainBaconMan, on 26 March 2012 - 04:37 AM, said:

nah, you're right about seppucrow, he pulls that shit sometimes.

Snooths, I think they only thing I dislike about you is that you can be kind of mean spirited. You don't have shit on some of the other people here though, ha. But, I really don't know you well enough to judge your character, so whatever. You do have a good wit though, I can surmise at least that.

Also, I don't like your lack of punctuation and shit, but that's a stupid fucking thing to consciously not like about someone.

@cbm- yeah the lack of punctuation can be kind of annoying, and i can be kind of a shit.
i like you. from the times i've interacted with you, you seem like a friendly, reasonably funny and all around good user.
your username is kinda lame though, i associate it with invader zim wacky-dacky type humor but i guess it's not really that kind of thing and it's not that bad anyway.

please ignore me when doing the next post and do CBM because i don't have much to hate him for, i just wanted to respond (i'm probably easier to do in these kinds of things though so idk)

The only thing I don't like about you is that I can never tell if you're joking or not. I mean I used to hate you and think you were a troll and shit then I realized I was being an idiot and that was totally unfounded, and I realize that I often have trouble telling whether a lot of people or joking or not. But it's definitely much more frequent with you. I'm not sure why tbh, and it's just as likely a failing of myself than you.

A certain artist on DeviantART shares his name with you, and said person's gallery is absolutely disgusting.

From the two posts that I've seen from you from this topic, it seems as though, at least in these parameters, your posts are lacking of substance to an extreme degree. Twice now you've said something that is either not really a valid complaint or it doesn't even have to do with the person.

"You share a name with this person who sucks and therefore you suck!"

Not to mention I recall you getting whipped up about the fact that someone spelled your name "mace" instead of "mAce." I can't tell if you were kidding, but from the content of your posts, I'm guessing you weren't.

you have an atrocious and needlessly lengthy about me page

Almost every post I've seen you make has been really mean, often for no apparent reason. I can't be sure if you're joking or not, but it always comes off as harsh, like you just want to insult people even if they didn't do anything noticeable to irritate you.

bawww I'm nate and I want you to stop saying hurtful words at me bawww&c.

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thanks for justifying me, bro

If you read one word you don't like you seem to shut out anything else being said about the matter. And for the record, the posts I was referring to with whf were never directed at me, because I usually avoid topics that will get me insulted.

This post has been edited by nate: 01 April 2012 - 05:42 AM

Doesn't appreciate her tits

Doesn't appreciate his tits.

This post has been edited by Leo-Inu: 01 April 2012 - 09:46 AM

Touché

INSENSITIVE.

SuitCase, on 01 April 2012 - 08:30 AM, said:

You can be kinda pretentious sometimes. For example, when I asked you on formspring "How do you cope with being depressed?" you wrote a whole essay that didn't make much sense (though I admittedly only skimmed it) and it read like a vaguely purple novel than an answer to a question. And then at the end you went off about these grand morals and how "truth" mean nothing, and I was like, uh what? I just wanted to know what you did when you were sad. And this isn't the only thing either, like, when I asked you what you thought made a likeable characcter you were like "How could I say? What makes a likeable character now, might not ten or twenty years from now!" It's really annoying to be honest.

You ask questions on Formspring and "skim" long, heartfelt answers.

Touché.

You sometimes make completely random tangents off of what we talk about, and completely throw me off in the process. (Not that I don't do it too)

You don't have anything in your "about me" section in your profile. Other that that, I know nothing about you.

(Go cry if you have a problem with it!)

I think your username sums it up rather nicely.

I just dont like the pokemon, dont know you much to dislike you for anything.

Lives in Pennslyvania and probably likes the Nittany Lions. A bunch of child molesters. Judges someone based on their nickname. Hates omorashi.

The Nittany Lions is by far the shittiest sports franchise in history. Both in their games and social views, right next to the Pittsburgh Pirates and L.A. clippers. I'd rather chew off my own foot than be a fan of them

This post has been edited by Leo-Inu: 06 April 2012 - 07:30 AM

Terrible at this thread

I dislike your negativity. I know it's unrealistic to be all sunshine and happiness, but a little more positivity would be good.

Has decided a long time ago to unveil all the 'logic mistakes' in star wars.

Taeshi, on 28 October 2011 - 04:20 AM, said:

No. It was me

Takes a horribly long amount of time to reply to a comment made in passing.

Seriously, wtf.

Oh my God

I dislike that you posted without contributing to the topic. You're supposed to state what you dislike about someone, not just say "oh my god."

This post has been edited by Smash Genesis: 08 April 2012 - 06:46 PM

I dislike that you suck at geometry.

(Because you clearly missed the point)