I can pretty much garauntee you, Suit, that you are not being percieved as how you want to be. I stand by my opinions on the Mettlebird incident. His girlfriend, whom he loved quite dearly, had just died. Grass' joke was way out of line, and Mettle's reaction was over-the-top, but that title was completely uncalled for. Your described Mettle as a "mid-tier idiot." So he's an "idiot" for having emotions?
But I digress. My point is, everyone sees you as the antagonizer here. I think we have discovered the source of what you called "anti-me-and-Vero sentiment." You've closed recess to shut out all forms of criticism, and citicizing the mods is now enough to get you banned. You were wondering why people were bad-talking you behind your back: well, now we know. You treat anyone you disagree with like a second-class citizen, a "mid-tier idiot." Anyone who disagrees with you is liable to be banned.
I think you acted prematurely in closing the topic; We were just getting to the heart of the matter.