78. Safe Boundaries, page posted 9/6/13

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Comment ID #258789

FFFFF Daisy, chill out.

Alaystus September 6, 2013, 1:00 PM EST.

Comment ID #258790

Daisy is so cute :love:

Botan September 6, 2013, 1:00 PM EST.

Comment ID #258791

The return of Daisy’s “pouty face”! :D

5Cats September 6, 2013, 1:01 PM EST.

Comment ID #258792

Chill out Daisy!!!

AngrySomeone September 6, 2013, 1:01 PM EST.

Comment ID #258793

Ahh! So cute ; v ; Haha, of course Abbey hasn’t done it yet, silly Daisy.

Cinnabun September 6, 2013, 1:01 PM EST.

Comment ID #258794

lol i got like that too XD
she is so damn cute i think it will be cute once it actually happens :)

Madi_mew101 September 6, 2013, 1:01 PM EST.

Comment ID #258795

I’m sencing tension…oh dear!

Jayden September 6, 2013, 1:02 PM EST.

Comment ID #258796

Cuter as she gets angrier

Vgr September 6, 2013, 1:02 PM EST.

Comment ID #258797

XD daisy…don’t let your nervousness get the best of you…

Luna September 6, 2013, 1:02 PM EST.

Comment ID #258798

Daisy is over-thinking way too much….its adorable. XD

Lily September 6, 2013, 1:02 PM EST.

Comment ID #258799

Calm down Daisy lol

McMysterio September 6, 2013, 1:03 PM EST.

Comment ID #258800

Wait what’s in that bag? Is it the…condoms?

Jayden September 6, 2013, 1:03 PM EST.

Comment ID #258801

I dont like this chick > -> shes so nnippy cause her crush spotted her x3

Chill out plz and DAVID WHY D:!!!!!!!

Sanchan September 6, 2013, 1:03 PM EST.

Comment ID #258802

I betcha she only told him the Mikie part.

Knux-the-Killer September 6, 2013, 1:04 PM EST.

Comment ID #258803

D’awwww I love how for just a second, Abbey looks annoyed, but then kinda understands it and makes light of it instead of blowing a fuse and getting mad. Looks like the counseling is really helping Abbey out with his anger issues since he is already showing a lot of improvement.

Defensive Daisy is adorable! :D

GracefulSerenity September 6, 2013, 1:05 PM EST.

Comment ID #258804

Well some one is mad…. Should have bought chill pills along with the condoms.

GLaDOS September 6, 2013, 1:05 PM EST.

Comment ID #258805

I love all of Daisy’s expressions so much ^_^

Dat Guy September 6, 2013, 1:05 PM EST.

Comment ID #258806

They’ll abort the mission any time… Either Abby or Daisy will do it.

GLaDOS September 6, 2013, 1:06 PM EST.

Comment ID #258807

I’m wondering about where are they leading for the…. grand finale… maybe abbey’s house? i sense another little sister awkward moment coming Furious Abbey

Blacko Katt September 6, 2013, 1:06 PM EST.

Comment ID #258808

I like how Daisy’s blushing much more than Abbey :smirk:

kj September 6, 2013, 1:07 PM EST.

Comment ID #258809

Abbey really DOES have huge ears… One ear is like half the size of his head. :O

Saphire September 6, 2013, 1:08 PM EST.

Comment ID #258810

Abbey’s calmed down a bit now actually while Daisy’s got worse XD

Caconia September 6, 2013, 1:08 PM EST.

Comment ID #258811

I can just picture Molly’s face walking in on this one. “Oh, so THAT’S how babies are made…”

And then Molly becomes a nun.

The Esquire September 6, 2013, 1:09 PM EST.

Comment ID #258812

Be careful you two, especially you Daisy…sometimes it’s not always best to rush into things. Make love in the sense of loving! Not in order to prove your maturity or status…

Sojobo September 6, 2013, 1:09 PM EST.

Comment ID #258813

Abbey seems really calm given how he was earlier in the chapter.

Also has anyone been keeping a tally on Daisy’s pouts this chapter, must be around 5-6 now?

Chrisd765 September 6, 2013, 1:09 PM EST.

Comment ID #258814

She is still a child. Obviously.

Faolan September 6, 2013, 1:13 PM EST.

Comment ID #258815

This chapter is so cute. Daisy is almost as cute as Lucy when she is pouting. Im sure daisy has nothing to worry about from mike seeing her buying protection. But she is just so shy and innocent she can’t help it. Of course abbey has nothing to be upset about he wasn’t caught red handed buying the protection. They should have just stuck together so they would share the awkwardness like they said they were going to.

Blue fox September 6, 2013, 1:14 PM EST.

Comment ID #258816

And then Augustus appears and assassinates Abbey.

Trubeque September 6, 2013, 1:16 PM EST.

Comment ID #258817

Daisy is all sorts of sad. lol

starfighter105 September 6, 2013, 1:44 PM EST.

Comment ID #258818

I don’t think Daisy’s ready. She really should of taken some chill pills. :/

Hawz September 6, 2013, 1:50 PM EST.

Comment ID #258819

Heh this looks like a replacement of MikeXLucy typical relationship from the old days :P

DK3 September 6, 2013, 1:55 PM EST.

Comment ID #258820

Amusing the sack containing the condoms looks like a guy’s sack.

Also, clearly not going to happen now with 3 pages to go.

Tired of Lucy September 6, 2013, 1:59 PM EST.

Comment ID #258821

Abbey is quite honest and he was just curious of what she has to say about it.

Keyblade Dragon September 6, 2013, 2:04 PM EST.

Comment ID #258822

Daisy’s face in the second to last panel is adorable <3

Aquaczaz September 6, 2013, 2:05 PM EST.

Comment ID #258823

I love it when she puffs up her face; she looks like a Jigglypuff. XD If I were Abbey, I’d always be peeving her on purpose just to see that look. :P

Alamoraine September 6, 2013, 2:07 PM EST.

Comment ID #258826

:love: She is soooo cute!!!! I wonder what is going to happen next and i wonder if anyone is gonna sneak up on them :x In other words this has just gotton interesting!! :P

Natacha September 6, 2013, 2:17 PM EST.

Comment ID #258827

The shape of that bag D:

Aprilkitty September 6, 2013, 2:17 PM EST.

Comment ID #258828

I love how when Lucy overreacts, pouts, shouts and is generally obnoxious people are like “Lol Lucy” “Oh Lucy you so sassy”
Then when Daisy overracts due to feeling embarrassed and experiencing new things and being excited yet scared, people make a huge deal over how childish she’s acting and ask “Whats wrong with her!?”

Jack September 6, 2013, 2:21 PM EST.

Comment ID #258829

I like how easy Abbey is taking this now and how progressively serious Daisy has been taking this whole, uh the kids call it “secks” thing.
You know what this page reminds me of? The Taeshi Dairies!
I could easily see Abbey as Soupy and Daisy as Taeshi. There she is fuming about something with Abbey trying to make it easier, which only makes her fume even more!
There better be some hot Abbey on Daisy action near the end of this chapter. I think we’ve considered the “moralities” enough, now let’s get straight to the bush we’ve all been beating around!
You wouldn’t let me down, would you Taeshi?
…Would you?

Blank On Purpose September 6, 2013, 2:31 PM EST.

Comment ID #258830

Taeshi. Make a animation! :D

Mr-Hero-Bio September 6, 2013, 2:34 PM EST.

Comment ID #258831

@Taeshi. What do you mean privelage? I don’t understand.

Ventus September 6, 2013, 2:39 PM EST.

Comment ID #258832

Abby seems to be more amused than anything at how seriously Daisy’s taking this. He seems to have lost his anxiety, seeing how much Daisy’s worrying. I’m guessing he’ll realize she’s not ready and do the right thing and ask her to wait. :love:

Eemia September 6, 2013, 2:44 PM EST.

Comment ID #258833

She’s like, “Abbey r u kitten me!?”

First September 6, 2013, 2:51 PM EST.

Comment ID #258835

Now maybe they’ll run into the sex Ed teacher? Please?

Misanthrope September 6, 2013, 3:07 PM EST.

Comment ID #258836

sex ed teacher! sex ed teacher!

Astrid555.1 September 6, 2013, 3:17 PM EST.

Comment ID #258838

hahaha I love this chapter

SirDavid September 6, 2013, 3:25 PM EST.

Comment ID #258840

Holy crap Daisy sshh sh calm your nonexistent feline breasts will you??? Deep breaths. There’s no need to yell at Abbey. (Even though he seems totally cool with it, but still. This chapter is pure unadulterated cute so far omg bless #^_^#)

Lizzie September 6, 2013, 3:26 PM EST.

Comment ID #258842

abbey is so chill about this xD poor daisy…

Mewtallica September 6, 2013, 3:47 PM EST.

Comment ID #258843

Daisy’s reaction! I laughed so hard. XD

Discord5 September 6, 2013, 4:09 PM EST.

Comment ID #258844

I wonder where Daisy’s eyes are in panel 3 XD

Rando September 6, 2013, 4:28 PM EST.

Comment ID #258845

He knows if he laughs, there won’t be anything left for him to put those condoms on, but you can see he is trying so hard to hold it back.
Maybe this will be good for Abbey, he can be entertained by Daisy’s imminent awkwardness around everyone for the next couple months.

Masonery September 6, 2013, 4:35 PM EST.

Comment ID #258846

She bought condoms, or testicles? Becuase this sure looks like a bag o’testicles.

Commander_Zero September 6, 2013, 4:41 PM EST.

Comment ID #258847

Where is Lucy? :question:

Mr-Hero-Bio September 6, 2013, 4:46 PM EST.

Comment ID #258849

she could atleast not hold it infront of her right?

LuptyFub September 6, 2013, 5:16 PM EST.

Comment ID #258851

Okay, in these last few pages, I personally haven’t really seen the humor in Daisy’s puffer fish impression. But here, I can finally see why it’s so effective. Simply put, combined with all the other cute Daisy on this page, it just fits so much better.
…so, you now have a bag with a box of condoms inside. Use them wisely, you two.

Oceanus92 September 6, 2013, 5:39 PM EST.

Comment ID #258852

Oh, Daisy XD

Subaru September 6, 2013, 5:43 PM EST.

Comment ID #258853

It would’ve been hilarious if Abbey ran into Augustus back there

TopHat September 6, 2013, 5:46 PM EST.

Comment ID #258854

Ooo, what if Abbey and Daisy broke up after?

Cyan September 6, 2013, 6:01 PM EST.

Comment ID #258855

Gaaaah 67 hours until the next page -table flip- I can’t help but wonder what’s happening with the whole Lucy thing at this point. Is she like,gone from the comics forever now? I mean,everyone pretty much got over her and now it’s back to the normal thing like before.

DeltaRedd September 6, 2013, 6:16 PM EST.

Comment ID #258857

Daisy looks incredibly stressed at this point D:

Chocothunda September 6, 2013, 6:33 PM EST.

Comment ID #258858

This kinda reminds me of the taeshi diary posts with suitcase and taeshi looking at a gif….o well must be my imagination. Anyway so ones on her period

Mcturtle September 6, 2013, 6:33 PM EST.

Comment ID #258859

Someone posted using my name. So now I must use this one.

Daisy, say it with me: “S E X”

Jack-Mo September 6, 2013, 6:52 PM EST.

Comment ID #258860

I swear this page just proves that Daisy just isn’t ready to have sex. If she can’t even say the word sex how is she supposed to actually have it?

Kay-Felis September 6, 2013, 7:38 PM EST.

Comment ID #258861

Daisy why are you so darn cute? :3

HikaruMokona September 6, 2013, 7:51 PM EST.

Comment ID #258862

She still wants the “D”.

Fluffy September 6, 2013, 7:58 PM EST.

Comment ID #258863

So you have gone from ruining Lucy to hurting daisy
Nice taeshi nice

n-master September 6, 2013, 8:02 PM EST.

Comment ID #258864

I’m gonna die if she ended up buying the wrong product, and it’s tampons or something. I’m seriously expecting that.

Whitney September 6, 2013, 8:10 PM EST.

Comment ID #258865

Daisy is turning into Lucy! Lol that’s so funny she’s got the cheeky look :3 :) :D

Artsyswaggy September 6, 2013, 8:13 PM EST.

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HongKat September 6, 2013, 8:39 PM EST.

Comment ID #258867

Interesting. Seeing Daisy so thrown off by it seems to have helped Abbey feel more comfortable about the situation.
So it seems at least.

BetaMonkey September 6, 2013, 8:59 PM EST.

Comment ID #258868

sdakjfaowgh you don’t have to go through with this! You’re just kids! I mean, sure it’s your decision, but it shouldn’t be this hard to make it. If you’re feeling at ALL doubtful about something like this, then you probably don’t really want to, at least not right now.

But, hey, that’s just me.

*salutes* good luck to ya

Hunter September 6, 2013, 9:51 PM EST.

Comment ID #258869

That same woman then goes around asking for equality among sexes.
Which I agree.

But I get mad at those women.

Lyucs September 6, 2013, 10:00 PM EST.

Comment ID #258870

Chill out daisy, and what cut expressions your showin to abbey

Paulo_fan September 6, 2013, 10:13 PM EST.

Comment ID #258871

Abbey is so sweet! :3 he’s so supportive and nice even when daisy is being a bit stubborn. XD

Hayli September 6, 2013, 10:30 PM EST.

Comment ID #258872

Jajaja love this chapter more and more and more…… x3

eagle September 6, 2013, 10:56 PM EST.

Comment ID #258873

Her expressions just get cuter and cuter :3

Strawberry~ September 6, 2013, 11:02 PM EST.

Comment ID #258874


Jupi September 6, 2013, 11:40 PM EST.

Comment ID #258875

Well, Daisy, if you can’t act mature about all this, you probably aren’t ready for sex anyways.

EvilCoffeeInc September 6, 2013, 11:48 PM EST.

Comment ID #258876

There is such thing as too much laughter. But I’ll let that slide for now ;)

Somebody September 6, 2013, 11:53 PM EST.

Comment ID #258877


That much has been obvious for the last five pages starting when she talked to Paulo. She got upset and thought she was excluded from “adult convos,” proceeds to the store and refuses to condom shop with Abbey as a mature couple would, gets seen by old flames and is mortified, can’t properly ask Abbey if he has had sex, and then angrily pouts when he asks her.

She isn’t ready. Period. They can’t even openly talk about the issue, but she just sort of assumes they don’t need to. She’s going to get burned hard if she does it anyway in a state like that.

Faolan September 7, 2013, 12:06 AM EST.

Comment ID #258878

This should not be an angry affair. This is a delicate loving thing and you don’t go into it angry. Because that’s just not right. I feel like she really wants to, but is at the same time really embarrassed. And wants to not be a child. So many things riding on this it’s about to collapse. Good luck, friends. Just don’t sink my top ship.

Alaystus September 7, 2013, 12:08 AM EST.

Comment ID #258879

Huh, I never noticed how short Daisy is.
Also, d’aww, silly daisy

suomynonA September 7, 2013, 12:11 AM EST.

Comment ID #258880

Daisy you are going to cause an adorablarity in which the universe collapses into one incredibly adorable point.

Tacsi September 7, 2013, 1:15 AM EST.

Comment ID #258881

Wow this entire chapter is embarrassing for daisy,its funny as hell

lov/hate/hurt September 7, 2013, 1:35 AM EST.

Comment ID #258882

Am I the only one who is extremely annoyed at Daisy’s childish behaviour and sick of so much exaggerated cuteness?
Because honestly, I can’t see the so called smartness of Daisy at any part of this chapter (or any of the previous ones whatsoever). Being good at school doesn’t necessarily make you smart, and I think that Daisy’s reactions, behaviour and ways to go through things prove it. Sure, it was wise wanting to get protection, but anyone with a minimum amount of common senses knows that. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not hating on Daisy or anything, I just think she has being too magnified all the time.

Jerkface September 7, 2013, 2:00 AM EST.

Comment ID #258883

Woman, stop being a child and be a woman. Gawd. XP

Jessica U. Ingmann September 7, 2013, 2:47 AM EST.

Comment ID #258884

@Jerkface (Thats their name im not being insulting lol) I don’t agree with that shes acting pretty normal to me. Idk I was just like her in this situation but I have anxiety problems so I wasn’t trying to be cute and I don’t see her as trying to be cute either she seems like shes just feeling really overwhelmed….but hey that’s just my opinion. Also I’m not sure how the poor girl being anxious makes her less intelligent…. ;_;

Silverhand September 7, 2013, 3:05 AM EST.

Comment ID #258885

Daisy what are you doing
those aren’t water balloons
why did you fill them with water
Daisy stop stop filling them with water
this isn’t funny
those were expensive

Nozomu September 7, 2013, 3:08 AM EST.

Comment ID #258886

@Nozomu maybe she planning on pelting Paulo with them in some “that’s for babying me” pay back or something, that is of course if they have been filled with well lets hope water, I have been thinking there is going to be a bait and switch with this chapter and that would be a good one and keeping on the recent theme of punish Paulo. Most likely though the shape of the bag is just an symbolic metaphor.

Chrisd765 September 7, 2013, 5:17 AM EST.

Comment ID #258888

That’s what you get for not putting enough points into Steath and Bluff, Daisy.

Xuncu September 7, 2013, 8:23 AM EST.

Comment ID #258889

Someone seriously needs to chill, after all she wanted to to take it further “you know, just in case”.

Amber September 7, 2013, 8:38 AM EST.

Comment ID #258890

I think it’s safe to say that Daisy is trippin. The way Abbey looked at her in panel 8… priceless. He’s like, ” Excuse me bitch? ” Lmao. XD

Random dude September 7, 2013, 9:41 AM EST.

Comment ID #258892

Abbys pretty whatever abought all this. Daisy at first glance seems like the goody good. However she isn’t. Jazz is the no sex till marrage type, but daisy for some reason needs to prove to herself that she’s attractive by having sex

JustSomeCritic September 7, 2013, 11:58 AM EST.

Comment ID #258893

Daisy looks cool with those stress-curls. 8-)

The plastic bag in panel 5 kinda looks like a gem on that necklace of hers.

That phamacy must be CHEAP ( :P), their plastic bags don’t even have Handles for poor ;_;.

Hawz September 7, 2013, 12:01 PM EST.

Comment ID #258895

I think it’s safe to say Daisy’s gonna lie down soon…

FOR A NAP! Furious Abbey Furious Abbey Furious Abbey

So, goodnight ;_;, and big balls! 8-D

Hawz September 7, 2013, 12:10 PM EST.

Comment ID #258896

Taeshi, why are you turning daisy into a *****? :c
I mean, characters like Rachel and Paulo were always sex-crazed but, Daisy? The innocent adorable one? She’s way too young. She’s the one i always figured would be against pre-martial sex like a good girl, but you’ve gone and done that in. I suppose the best outcome i can hope for at this point is that Abbey’s mom/sister found out about this when they were “planning” it in Abbey’s room, and they’ll intervene. Don’t know how likely that is.
>>Please don’t let Daisy lose her flower yet, she’s too young ;c

Cecilite September 7, 2013, 12:16 PM EST.

Comment ID #258897

@ Cecilite

I recall Paulo going over this in some character development/back story arch a while ago. He wasn’t always “sex crazed.” He turned himself into something he alternately hates and loves being because he thought it was what Lucy wanted. All argument about whether changing yourself for someone else is right (it usually isn’t, as evidenced by the fact that Paulo turned himself into something Lucy hates), he isn’t the sex-crazed ladies-man he portrays himself to be. On the inside he’s sensitive and obviously regrets what happened with Jess and Rachel, especially this last time he slept with Rache.

That said, yes, Paulo’s a teenage boy, and teenage’d boys stereotypically have trouble with their hormones, making them “sex-crazed.” That shouldn’t make it okay for Paulo to lose his virginity at 15 to some random girl who he doesn’t even like, and who didn’t like him, but make it horrible and awful and s-l-u-t-t-y for Daisy to lose it at the same age to someone she’s been dating for a while and who she believes she loves and loves her. I’m not a fan of people having sex at such young ages either (I’m still barely not a virgin at 21) but it’s up to Daisy and Abby when they make this decision, together. People are incredibly different, and what may be right for one individual isn’t right for another. Maybe Daisy will be ready to take this next step soon, and maybe Paulo wasn’t ready at all (actually, he really wasn’t, but that can’t be helped now).
Either way, it doesn’t make Daisy a ***** to sleep with her boyfriend.

Eemia September 7, 2013, 12:28 PM EST.

Comment ID #258898

@Cecilite: Daisy is NOTHING like Rach or Paulo, even if she does go through with it, and what’s with this “good girl,” stereotype? :(

HOLY CRAP! I just did a serious comment… D:

Hawz September 7, 2013, 12:34 PM EST.

Comment ID #258900

Abbey’s face on the last panel :’)

Dani September 7, 2013, 12:42 PM EST.

Comment ID #258901

That went terribly.

Yxela007 September 7, 2013, 12:59 PM EST.

Comment ID #258902

“Be against pre-martial sex like a good girl”

For a second there I though I had stumbled into a time machine and ended up in the 1950’s

Nero September 7, 2013, 1:02 PM EST.

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Hawz September 7, 2013, 1:06 PM EST.

Comment ID #258904

…This is like the best pairing in the series

bubblegumprincess September 7, 2013, 1:30 PM EST.

Comment ID #258905

@Eemia @Cecilite

In all fairness, the 1950s-1990s were socially awesome. People knew their neighbors and actually talked to each other back then.

Paulo, Rachel, and Jess do appear sex-crazed considering they aren’t really happy about their choices. It is sad that Daisy wants so badly to be like this group that’s all been sleeping together in a weird friendship orgy.

She’s also not really aware of the baggage. Jess with the dog-guy assaulting her and spreading nasty rumors, Rachel with her insecurities from Paulo, “Is that all I’m good for?” Paulo, who really wants Lucy, but is creating his own guilt circle.

Daisy jumping into all this may not make her a ****, but is does make her an idiot. As people have been saying, she ain’t ready. She’s acting like a child.

As a laughable note, I don’t think there is such a thing as “barely not a virgin.”

You either lost it or you didn’t XD

Lucy September 7, 2013, 2:02 PM EST.

Comment ID #258907

Haha, the 50’s being socially awesome is the funniest thing I’ve ever heard, you really need to study history and what was really going on during that time. First, women were heavily repressed during that era, it was believed that their place was the kitchen and the bedroom. Second, that friendliness was phony that happened with the aid of mother’s little helper (if you want to know what that is look it up because I can’t say the name of it without getting an error message). Third, the men weren’t much better, that fake friendliness for them was because they were often buzzed.

Basically, the 50’s was the phoniest era of all time. Everything appeared hokey dorey on the outside, but when you look at what was really going on you would find it was a very repressed (in a lot of ways outside how women were treated) era that only looked good on the outside because most often, the women were high and the men were drunk.

buchanen_neket September 7, 2013, 3:33 PM EST.

Comment ID #258908

@ Lucy

First off: I don’t have to explain or justify my choice of words or phrases to you.

Second: Daisy IS aware of Jess’s baggage at least. She was THERE when Jess told the story. It was at Lucy’s birthday slumber party, and that’s the first any of us, readers and in-universe characters included, heard details about Jess’s history with Tess. That was also where we (and they) heard that Jess was just using Paulo to get back at Tess, and Daisy was present when Lucy told Jess off about how much she hurt Paulo. That was also when it came out that Rachel is “just a huge ****.”

Rachel is the only one in this entire story who is completely casual about sex. She finds it fun and sees nothing wrong with engaging in safe, consensual sex with more than one person and with no emotional strings attached. Jess’s first time was with Paulo, and since then we haven’t seen her being “sex-crazed” at all. Paulo has ONLY slept with Jess and Rachel, the first few times because they were using him to get back at Tess, and because he himself was dealing with some stress and issues. Not “sex-crazed.” The fact that they’re not happy about their choices doesn’t make them “sex-crazed.” In fact, it actually makes them seem even LESS “sex-crazed.” If they were “sex-crazed” neither one of them would have regrets about how, when, and with who they lost their virginity, they would just be happy to have had sex.

Eemia September 7, 2013, 3:39 PM EST.

Comment ID #258909


You don’t have to explain. I just found it funny that you were sharing your personal life on the internet and you preferred that way of saying you weren’t a virgin. Sort of goes against your sex-positive ideas if you yourself can’t come to terms with the whole virgin/non-virgin thing.

You can’t deny the weird orgy going on with Paulo, Jess, and Rachel. Maybe it’s not crazed, but it’s weird when you sleep around in your friend circle.


See, note I used a time frame, and not just a certain date.

Lucy September 7, 2013, 5:17 PM EST.

Comment ID #258910

@EVERYONE!!!: C-c-c-combo breaker! I had to stop the madness. 8-D

Hawz September 7, 2013, 5:24 PM EST.

Comment ID #258912

Can I just say I love this comic but the author’s comments are just the cherry on top omg.

Stef September 7, 2013, 5:58 PM EST.

Comment ID #258913


Actually I pointed out the flaws in the other eras in my previous message. It however popped an error message because of me saying the actual name of “mother’s little helper”. I’ll summarize, 60’s and 70’s weren’t better than the 50’s because there was a revolution between generations. You had the hippies vs the old generation. While the 60’s was the foothold of the women’s right movement (a good thing), there was a huge rebellion against the old ways of thinking. So not much social interaction and a lot of separation between the suburbs and the communes. The 80’s were probably the closest to a balance between everybody being together, but there were still issues of the former hippies and the yuppies. The 90’s was an inverse in two directions, one was the formation of the extremist feminist movement. That’s not to say i’m against feminism or women’s empowerment, it’s just that in any group there are extremist. These are the women who thought murdering and mutilating men was okay in the name of women’s rights. So again we had another segregation with a lot of people generalizing feminists by the actions of the extremist. So there was a dividing line between genders. Of course there was the advent of net technology as well during this time degrading personal social interaction as a whole.

Summarized, none of those periods were as you said, there’s always been some form of segregation, socially degrading behaviors, or just outright separation. The reason these all looked like everybody was being sociable and nice is because in some shape or form (drugs, media, nostalgia glasses, etc) we were duped into believing that history fit some societal norm. When it couldn’t be further from the truth.

buchanen_neket September 7, 2013, 7:06 PM EST.

Comment ID #258914

When did Daisy become a dwarf

I’m just sayin’

Also those rubber legs in the second panel

PS everything was **** up until now because the only people with any power in the usa were white straight men. Because getting persecuted because you are a black person, or a brown person, or a yellow person, or a red person, or a gay person, or a trans person, or even just an uppity woman…yeah, great. I’d love going back to that eh. If casting all that **** off means neighbors don’t talk to each other anymore, GOOD. I didn’t want to talk to them anyway.

Macca September 7, 2013, 8:28 PM EST.

Comment ID #258916

@Macca: Abbey’s just tall.

Hawz September 7, 2013, 8:50 PM EST.

Comment ID #258917

Ventus asked above, but I’ll ask again because I don’t think Taeshi has answered yet, but what was that comments context under the comic regarding privilege? I’m sure I’m showing my ignorance by asking, but I’ll never learn if I don’t ask…

As for Daisy and her current reactions…I don’t know, it seems, if not reasonable, at least understandable to me. While first making moves on Abbey she was quite confident, she was certainly more assertive and in control of the situation than he was. Not that I see Abbey in a poor light because of that, having someone come onto you that clearly for the first time can sometimes be quite intimidating if you’re not expecting it. Now, however, Daisy is outside a private place, having already been embarrassed by parental interference, put on the back foot by Paulo’s reactions, and in a very public place was recognized and seen to be buying something for which there is a very clear and defined purpose. She’s feeling embarrassed and judged, even by her own potential sexual partner, and out of her depth as this is a big emotional step for most, and the only comfort she would be able to draw from the situation (Abbey) is currently poking fun at her. I figure, if things were let alone for a bit and the pair of them end up with a nice, safe and private place and time to be together, Daisy would be back to being quite comfortable and relaxed about it all, and this time Abbey wouldn’t be blindsided by her intentions. I personally remember that decision to first step into the sexual world being quite the decision, emotionally speaking.

Just my thoughts, anyway. I’ll leave the morality and ethics of the pair of them actually doing the deed in the first place to the more excitable crowd, I prefer amateur psychological analysis. : P

Zephyr September 7, 2013, 10:03 PM EST.

Comment ID #258919


come on, anyone 15 and above should know this one. There are a few things a guy isn’t “allowed” to ask a girl. Their age, status of their virginity, etc. I put allowed in parenthesis because I think that is bull. Anything a girl can ask a guy is fair game in reverse. However that’s just how it is, there’s certain things a female can ask a guy but a guy can’t ask the same thing.

buchanen_neket September 7, 2013, 10:45 PM EST.

Comment ID #258921


I guess I never encountered that kind of cultural emphasis on who can or cannot say what and when. I have no idea how I managed that, given how prevalent the posts are making it sound, but that’s just the way it’s turned out : /. I think I simply may have ended up with a particularly open and free-spirited set of friends, and my mother certainly doesn’t give a flying f*** about social conventions that impede her doing what she wants to, and maybe that simply had a big impression on me. Regardless, thanks for explaining what must have been bleedingly obvious to anyone else. : P. I certainly agree with your “bull” comment, however, I believe quite firmly that if there is to be a social imperative regarding a given subject it should be a two way street. I certainly would not feel upset or uncomfortable asking or being asked any question on any subject. Of course, it is within the rights of the person asked the question to simply not give an answer for whatever reason they see fit, but I see no reason to get upset or offended over it, its pretty trivial stuff in the grand scheme of things.

Zephyr September 7, 2013, 11:39 PM EST.

Comment ID #258922

Well, they have 3 pages to do it. U know do the IT, sex i’m talking about sex lol. I wonder if that will get censored. :question: Well with a chapter called safe boundairys i dought there going to do it, u know it, IIIIIIIITTTTT, Sex i’m talking about sex, god y doesn’t anyone get it! Do i have to spell it out!? God! (disclaimer i’m joking)

JustSomeCritic September 7, 2013, 11:50 PM EST.

Comment ID #258924

@JustSomeCritic: What is it? But what is it? WHAT IS IT??? What is this it you speak of? What is this they do? What is iiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiit?


Hawz September 8, 2013, 12:19 AM EST.

Comment ID #258925


Best guess, it’ll be last page and implied. Like them closing the door or a light going out in the room they enter. Something like that.

That or there’ll be an awkward with one of their parents on the next page.

buchanen_neket September 8, 2013, 12:51 AM EST.

Comment ID #258926

my god daisy is short. I mean I always knew she was a bit on the short side but damn, seeing her stand next to abbey like that really puts it into perspective.

bluesub6 September 8, 2013, 1:20 AM EST.

Comment ID #258927

lol simple fact for us guys. we get asked a question about sex its perfectly fine. if we ask a woman about their sex life we get yelled at and have to apologies. This really is why america needs to be changed so that way men and women are equal on everything, pay, the amount of work, the number of days of, thats right im saying we men need to be able to take off for maternity leave and what not.

1wolfblade September 8, 2013, 1:41 AM EST.

Comment ID #258929


Not just America, the world. As a for consideration, consider that Taeshi is an aussie, I highly doubt that she’s THAT familiar with American culture after only being here a month or so. That means this is something she picked up while she was in Australia. Further other countries bow to European standard of conduct. So if anything it all falls back to, once again, Europe being the ******** whose influence screwed things.

buchanen_neket September 8, 2013, 2:24 AM EST.

Comment ID #258930


Are they ever going to actually do anything?


Is it just going to be awkward forever?

Just… Wondering… :/

Jodie September 8, 2013, 2:31 AM EST.

Comment ID #258931

Abbey, just say “Look, Daisy, I’m sorry that happened. If it means anything, I’ll make it up to you. Whatever you want, you name it.”

SOGx-ray September 8, 2013, 4:54 AM EST.

Comment ID #258932

Its really subtle, but in the 8th panel there is a hint, the reason why daisy isn’t safe with abbey. He might hate his father for the person he was, but with his rage issues I can see him following in his father’s footsteps without even knowing it.

Meh September 8, 2013, 7:41 AM EST.

Comment ID #258933

@Meh: Or you know, he is just a tad annoyed that when he asked her the same question he was just asked that she pretty much yelled in his face.

Plus, I doubt he will follow in the footsteps of his father completely when he has actually been getting help for his anger issues. If this was earlier in the comic when he wasn’t, I’d agree with you. But he is getting help for his anger and the only issue that is likely to come up is his growing possessiveness. I doubt he will hurt Daisy because of his possessiveness because he has also has a strong desire to protect females, but he might start getting annoyed at her for hanging around with people he dislikes e.g. Paulo or asking who she is going to hang out with but not out of cruelty. It’d mainly be out of concern, which is why he wouldn’t notice he is replicating part of his father’s behaviour; it would only be part of how his father acted, not all of it.

Moogle September 8, 2013, 8:08 AM EST.

Comment ID #258934

****en beeeetch~

Sly September 8, 2013, 10:45 AM EST.

Comment ID #258937

Aw she’s all flustered

vul September 8, 2013, 10:35 PM EST.

Comment ID #258938

My god daisy quit the pouty face! Grow up a little will ya?! You get mad for thinking other people think your not mature enough to know these things, and this baby-ish pouting is not helping!

Sorra September 8, 2013, 10:37 PM EST.

Comment ID #258939

The **** did I just read….

Hamsterzrule September 9, 2013, 3:40 AM EST.

Comment ID #258940

Дайси. Лол . Cекс


Comment ID #258941

Ohmygod what have i started im so sorry for stating a personal opinion in a place such as this ; n ;

Cecilite September 9, 2013, 11:56 AM EST.

Comment ID #258969

Oh, my! I just realized how much this page resembles the adventures of Tae&Souppy in Taeshi’s Diary!! I can’t stop laughing now that I see Souppy as Abbey!!

Cavara September 9, 2013, 2:28 PM EST.

Comment ID #258994

@Cecilite: NO IT’S OK TO STATE YOUR OPINION! Just don’t take the reactions as insults. I don’t usually make comments like that anyway. We cool? ;)

Hawz September 9, 2013, 7:02 PM EST.

Comment ID #259225

In the top left panel the bag looks like a pair of balls. Was that on purpose Taeshi?

Gershnargin September 11, 2013, 9:59 PM EST.

Comment ID #263100

“Check your privilege Abbey” hahahahah XD

Vix October 25, 2013, 10:52 AM EST.

Comment ID #278698

check your prejudice author.

Purity April 4, 2014, 6:06 PM EST.

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