Bittersweet Candy Bowl

121. Method Acting, page posted 10/16/24

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Veronica: Being nice is LAME, Matt! Come on, get with the times!

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Comment ID #25279

Man Tiff, do you not like Jordan or something?😂

Yellow467

Comment ID #25280

Reap what you sow girl, hope you got what you wanted

Rocky Wolfknight

Comment ID #25281

The more Tiff talks, the more I like her lol

esinololly

Comment ID #25282

The worst part is that Rachel probably is the only one who connected Rina to herself. Most people who watched it most likely loved Rina as a comic relief. She isn’t the only happy going sex enjoyer out there you know

Kiall Vun Myeret

Comment ID #25283

jessica should just take the l, but unfortunately, she’s a teenager. they’re not good at taking the l

Rosenfields

Comment ID #25284

It’s nice to see the seniors have drama for once. Kinda hope they storm past the main table with all of then staring in amazement its not them for once

Fiver

Comment ID #25285

Aaaand, still not an apology. She got close, but no cigar. I can understand the defensiveness, and it’s becoming clear that she does actually have some remorse for hurting her friends like this, but she still has not actually owned up to that fact and apologized. Seems like she’s more interested in trying to save face and rationalize her way out of the emotional pain she caused, and needless to say… that isn’t working.

Alec

Comment ID #25286

Sounds like she cares more about saving her reputation than the damage it’s causing to her friends…

Makes me wonder how the brother will feel if he saw of heard of this

Rocky Wolfknight

Comment ID #25287

Just different opinions ofcourse but i strongly disagree with the idea that Jes should apologise.

If the intent for insult wasn’t there you don’t owe an apology, you owe an explanation which Jes has given.

There is a difference between getting hurt and feeling like you got hurt.

And apologising for feeling like you got hurt when that was never the intention can create a heavy victim mentality in the other person.

If Rachel sees herself so heavily reflected by a one dimentional character then Rachels self image is the problem here. And Jes apologising when she did nothing wrong would deny Rachel the selfgrowth of realising that

Kiall Vun Myeret

Comment ID #25288

“feeling like you got hurt” is still having your feelings hurt. I’m sorry, but you are just wrong on that one. You’re right that not everyone who has their feelings hurt necessarily deserves an apology, but if you are directly responsible for hurting the feelings of a FRIEND, a genuine apology is the best way to maintain that relationship. Again, this isn’t even a matter of whether or not Jess did something wrong or intentionally, it’s simply a fact that her actions directly hurt her friends. Denying that hurt by rationalizing why they shouldn’t be hurt ignores their feelings in an effort to absolve yourself of guilt, which is a really shitty thing to do to your friends, and can lead to long-held grudges that erode those friendships over time. If Jess truly cares about her friends, then owning up to the fact that she caused that hurt and is sorry for doing so, even if it was not her intent, is the best way to show that to her friends. AFTER that apology, further discussions can be had as to the deeper causes of that hurt, but the first and most important step is all parties involved acknowledging the hurt exists in the first place.

Alec